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Old 01-01-2012, 04:14 PM   #1
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hi i have a bpd and my partner and i have been together for just over 2 years, we have had our ups and downs but i have never felt so unhappy for so long before while with him.

he has been with me though my mood swings and has been nothing but nice, he has quit drinking for me, but for the past 2 months i have been really down.
at first i ignored it but the last week it has been really bad, i told him i am not happy and we have spoken a little bit about it. i told him i love him and dont want him to leave and asked if we could ignore it a few more weeks saying it could just be my bpd acting up.
but as you can see i cant ignore it probably because he is trying anything and everything to cheer me up. i just feel so guilty for putting him though this.

he move over 100 miles to be with me and we are around each other 24/7 as we live together and the drs have made him my carer.
we have no friends to turn to and my family have disowned me.

can anyone please help, i dont want to loss him like everyone else in my life.
dose he have to move out and we start our relationship over, or is this doomed like every other relationship i have had.

Last edited by halee; 01-19-2012 at 04:44 PM. Reason: advice not needed he ended it tonight

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Old 04-25-2012, 12:11 PM   #2
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Re: really confused HELP

So basically it's your mood swings that is ruining things correct? Have you been diagnosed bipolar? I was the same way; unhappy, moody etc. my psychiatrist put me on Lamictal to help with all of that and everything has been great since that started working. I'm no longer moody which makes me happy which makes my relationship happy.

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