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Old 10-31-2004, 09:47 AM   #1
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Need explanation

Can someone tell me once and for all why so many men do not want anything to do with their girlfriends anymore if they find out they were raped. I am sorry I don't mean to be depressing or make others feel discouraged, but it seems pretty common. I know that if they feel that way then I don't want to be with them anyhow. It just seems like there is not a single man in the world who cares to actually know about such things if they have happened. Unfortunately, I can't trust a man if they don't know.

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Old 11-02-2004, 09:01 AM   #2
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Re: Need explanation

Dear pfunk,

Allow me to set you straight here dear.Thier is a very good reason why men want nothing to do w/women who have been raped. The reason is........
BECAUSE THEY ARE NOT MEN!!!!!!!!!!!!! I sence that u r rather young. The bottom line is any decent guy who really cares will want to give understanding, support, encouragement, and kindness. The fact that it happened is only relevent as to how you are,......NOT HIM!!!!
Anything else is just little boy selfishness. You are right not to trust them.
Not that they are inherently untrustworthy, but if they don't pocess the necessary judgement and understanding to help you, then how could they be expected to gain trust in future delicate situations....Do youself a favor.......Anyone who can't handle it.........MOVE ON BABE!!!!!! They were never your friend to begin with. good luck, huk

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