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thanhtule 11-18-2015 01:59 AM

Is he losing interest or playing a game with me?
 
Me and this guy met each other at work. I started to like him and chatted with him on ********. We chatted quite often before.
Things happened in the last month when he found out that I like him. He was surprise and said that he cant have any feelings for me t this moment but keep the conversation on and on like it would never stop. After that, he asked me to hang out with me, it went good, it was just two of us sitting on the hills and chatting around an hour. Then, he initiated with the chatting and asked me to go the the 2nd 'date' but he told me that was not a DATE, and didnt want to me to get any wrong ideas. The second one was fine however the first one, we did talk a lot and it was like non-stop but the second one, i felt like im the one who initiate everything.
Unfortunately, after the second hang out, he just like disappear, did not chat to me at all. I kept the chatting up on ******** and normally he keeps on and on but he makes me felt like he is losing interest.
I saw him at work last Friday, we did not say a word to each other and it has been 10 days we havent chatted or talked.
I would really appreciate with anyone could take a look of this and give me an advice!! Cheers!!!

Seraph 11-18-2015 04:16 AM

Re: Is he losing interest or playing a game with me?
 
He has tried to make it clear that he is not interested in you in a romantic way. Accept this and move on. Sorry but it happens. Sera

52ken 11-18-2015 04:19 AM

Re: Is he losing interest or playing a game with me?
 
This person does not seem interested in anything except maybe friendship. I beleive you are waisting your time if you are looking for more. He can tell that you seem like you want more and he doesn't want to give you false hope. He seems like a very decent man and is doing all he can to not lead you on. In the future you never know but at this time he is not interested. Good luck.

Kszan 11-18-2015 06:31 AM

Re: Is he losing interest or playing a game with me?
 
It's never a good idea to get involved with people at work. He probably kniws that, which is why he decided to pull away. I think you should just tell him that you understand his concerns and don't want to make things awkward so you'll just leave it at being cordial to each other.

movielover40 11-18-2015 02:25 PM

Re: Is he losing interest or playing a game with me?
 
Best to not worry about this guy.

Time to look for someone else.

rosequartz 11-20-2015 09:28 AM

Re: Is he losing interest or playing a game with me?
 
losing interest? the only thing he is interested in is getting his own ego stroked.....it was fun for him to have a girl who wants to chase him.....
don't even give him the time of day.....


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