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    Old 02-29-2016, 02:54 PM   #1
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    Hey so I need advice on how to break up with someone. Here's the whole story;
    So theres this guy in my church and he's a few years older than me (I'm 16 and he is 24). I kinda liked him but I never considered having a relatjionship with him because of the age gap. So yesterday on Sunday he gave me his number and I was kinda excited to talk to him. And when we started talking (texting) he told me that he liked me and that he had always liked me and I told him that I liked him to. And all of a sudden he started thinking we were dating and he started calling himself my boyfriend but we never made thinks official and I don't know how to tell Him that I don't want a relationship. Before the whole "boyfriend thing happend we had planned to meet up next weekend but now I don't know if I want to go and I don't know how to tell him that I just want to be friends. I was thinking of just ghosting him but we go to the same church so that means I'll still see him. I don't know what to do please help. (Bear in mind that I've never really been in a relationship before so I don't know how to break up with people).

     
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    Old 02-29-2016, 02:56 PM   #2
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    Re: How do I break up with him

    I don't want to break his heart tho

     
    Old 02-29-2016, 04:52 PM   #3
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    Re: How do I break up with him

    Hi, I wouldn't worry about breaking his heart. This guy is way too old for you. I suggest that you talk with your parents or another responsible adult concerning this man telling them what is going on. They will help you with breakup. You need to be having fun with other teens.

     
    Old 02-29-2016, 06:03 PM   #4
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    Re: How do I break up with him

    Nothing good can come out of this relationship. You have your highschool times ahead of you to enjoy. A man at the age of 24 has no business trying to hook up with you.

     
    Old 03-01-2016, 04:47 AM   #5
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    Hi, you could tell him your parents a very strict with you and they think you are too young for a relationship.....

     
    Old 03-01-2016, 06:27 AM   #6
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    agree! tell him your parents are strict and you can't date until you are 18

     
    Old 03-03-2016, 12:48 PM   #7
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    Thank you all for ur suggestions. ����

     
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