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hirax 03-22-2017 11:05 PM

How to get dates as a 21 year old girl
 
I am 21 years old girl never had a bf or asked out. I have never dated and I would like to start but the problem is that I am having trouble finding dates and it seems like online dating might be my only choice (even though I don't want it to be). I don't even/have never had any guy experience whatsoever. Even the other day, a girl in front of me got cold approached by a guy and this guy was asking for her number. Yet, this never happens to me; I have never had a guy approach me, let alone ask for my number. And I never saw this girl flirting or giving this guy any type of signal for him to approach her.

I don't go to bars or clubs. I am 5'6 and weigh 125 lbs. I don't wear a lot of makeup and I don't have hideous skin. I'm not a skimpy dresser (anyway, I am thin and I don't have big assets). I only get called beautiful or checked out by a random guy rarely or every once in a blue moon. For some reason, I feel like guys don't pay me attention much and I almost never get hit on or flirted with. I tried putting myself out there a few times by going to some events, but nothing came from it/nothing happened.

I am wondering how I can get dates and what I need to do to find love?

rosequartz 03-23-2017 03:17 PM

Re: How to get dates as a 21 year old girl
 
how about friends of friends?

movielover40 03-24-2017 01:07 PM

Re: How to get dates as a 21 year old girl
 
The more you get out and about the more your chances will be.

Do you go to a church at all?

Best of luck to you.

naturesbeauty 03-30-2017 09:53 PM

Re: How to get dates as a 21 year old girl
 
I just wanted to say you are still young and enjoy your free life I know you want to feel wanted and loved but it will come in unexpected timing.in mean time enjoy yourself and try focus on what you like and enjoy doing. Do you like horses or going bowling, etc?


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