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    Old 04-22-2017, 04:35 PM   #1
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    Should I forgive my fiancÚ for cheating on me?

    I love my boyfriend he is always nice to me, but 2 years ago he started cheating on me and he keeps denying it, until recently he said to me that it was just because we werent engaged, and since we will get married soon he wont of course cheat on me because i will be his wife, he is saying the truth but I dont know if Im okey with the fact that he cheated on me as his lover and not supporting me in a hard time( my father was sick and I was short of money), im really weak, I dont know if I should abondon him, I saw him this afternoon he was so gentle and I loooved being with him, but Im really sad why he cheated on me, you shoulf know that he has every quality that a girl desires, i wish he didnt do what he did
    what are your thoughts on this matter? What should I do?

     
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    Old 04-22-2017, 06:01 PM   #2
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    Re: Should I forgive my fiancÚ for cheating on me?

    Trust is as important as love in a marriage.I've been married for 32 years.

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    Old 04-22-2017, 06:29 PM   #3
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    Re: Should I forgive my fiancÚ for cheating on me?

    Even though it is wrong to cheat on their fiance some men think they can get away with it. The problem is, will they also cheat after they get married. That depends on the man and how serious they take the marriage vows. If he has so many good qualities then and you decide to marry him then you need to forgive him and trust him again. Let him know that he won't get another chance so he better take the wedding vows seriously.

     
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    Old 04-26-2017, 05:10 AM   #4
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    Re: Should I forgive my fiancÚ for cheating on me?

    In this today's world marriage doesn't last cause there is no communication, trust and if he really loved you he wouldn't have strayed. He is not worthy of your trust. They say if it happened then it wasn't meant to be. It easy to forgive but it will always be in your thoughts so trust is the hardest to gain back. If no trust is there then there is no love. I'm am really sorry that this happened to you you deserve better than that. He is making excuses so it's best to let him go. Talk to him and tell him how you really feel about this whole thing cause marriage is easy and cheap but divorce is not as easy to get out and very expensive. I wish you best of luck to heal from this hurt feeling.

     
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    Old 04-26-2017, 10:08 AM   #5
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    Re: Should I forgive my fiancÚ for cheating on me?

    there is no excuse for his behavior, yes you should abandon him!
    the sooner the better

     
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