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    Old 07-20-2018, 02:59 AM   #1
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    Old 07-20-2018, 06:34 AM   #2
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    Re: His drinking drives me crazy

    It sounds to me like you have slipped down to number two in his life after the drinking; he would rather go and drink than be with you. This will not change because of anything you say to him (as you have found out). You have a few options. One, continue on trying to get him to recognise that he has a problem (very little success rate here). Two, walk out, refusing to return until and unless he stops this destructive behaviour (could take a very long time depending on the hold his drinking has on him). Walk away and save yourself potentially years of heartbreak, pain and frustration and the loss of the best years of your life being wasted on an alcoholic. Because that is what he is already. Think hard and get help for yourself to manage either staying or going. Alcoholics are too hard to deal with on your own. Sera

     
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