I Need Help Helping Someone
Hi everyone,
I need a bit of guidance in terms of dealing with someone really important to me. I've been dating for 2 and a half years, my girlfriend is now on the second year of her degree (in Psychology), here in Portugal. Lately, she isn't really behaving like herself, she used to be really focused on the classes and hardworking at home, today she even admited that she is really disapointed with the course, she said that she feels really sad that she feels to have no path, no aspirations, she admited that if she knew how the course was she would've gollow something different, the point in all of this is that since I know her psychology was her goal and everything she wanted to work in the future.
Besides that, she is really sad, and we are not that much time together during the whole week, she said she feels lonely, tired (mentally and phisically), she is getting a little anxious and said that nothing in her course appeals to her anymore, but the main part for me is that I've never seen her in such a sad and low point in her life before and I really need to help her getting through this phase, I want to help her, should I go out with her more times? Try to do different things? How should and can help her? What advice should I give her? How can I approuch her? What should I do with her?
Thanks in advance,
José
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