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    Old 05-19-2020, 09:24 AM   #1
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    cannot vent or anything else

    Been married for 8 years. Was happy for most of it. When things get to me if I try to vent to the wife it's always a huge argument. If I feel bad it's never as bad as she feels. Same goes for anything else. Lately she blows up over nothing. She blew up this morning because she misunderstood something I said. I got 15 minutesof how I'm no help and she has it all on her. I never do anything right for her. She says she wants me to help with the housework but everything I do is always wrong. If I try to say how i feel I get threatened with divorce.

    In 2015 I had 5 strokes. One before then and one after. I've lost much of my eyesight and my memory is useless. The dr said I should never drive due to my deficits. So she keeps sending me on errands until I finally hit a car I didn't see. Then I'm horrible that I ruined her car.

    I could go on and on. She hasn't acted like she is attracted to me in almost 2 years. I've been told I'm an annoying burden. Then she blames me for everything. When she gets mad she says some horribly mean things that if i had said it she wouldn't let me back in the house.

    We are both disabled and in our early 50's.

     
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    Old 06-18-2020, 11:12 AM   #2
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    Re: cannot vent or anything else

    Since I posted that she has went back onto Zoloft and is acting like herself again. Was rough there for a while.

     
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    Old 06-19-2020, 10:21 AM   #3
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    Good to hear....i hope you both are able to discuss issues.

    Do you have someone to help you with errands?

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