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    Old 01-12-2021, 09:10 AM   #1
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    To tell her or not...

    Hi all,

    Don't want to bore you with the details but I'm still in love with my ex-wife, we have a close friendship while co-parenting our children. I'm more in love with her than when we met even though she shattered my heart from the divorce.

    She just broke up with her boyfriend and now she's doing a long distance thing with someone else. Do I tell her, do I just grab her and kiss her...it's killing me!!!

    Thanks for your input!

     
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    Old 01-12-2021, 01:17 PM   #2
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    Re: To tell her or not...

    Loving someone deeply doesn't make for an intimate relationship.

    You could, however, make a comment as to how grateful you are and love that you two are getting along well.

    Don't jeopardize what you have. That way there is no threat to boundaries.

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    Old 01-12-2021, 03:07 PM   #3
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    Re: To tell her or not...

    We've already had that conversation, in fact, she is typically the one that initiates it and is handsy, touching me quite a bit during and after.

    I'm struggling with this because I'm getting ques from her that say she may be interested in a intimate relationship. I've resisted in the past because she was in a relationship at the time. She's in a very long distance thing that recently begun so I'm not sure how committed she is.

     
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    Old 01-12-2021, 10:43 PM   #4
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    Re: To tell her or not...

    Well...ask her why she does that.
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