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Old 12-29-2003, 08:19 PM   #1
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Question How can I approach a girl I don't know?

How can I meet a girl and get a date with her when I meet one in a public place that I don't know or have seen before. What can I say?

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Old 12-30-2003, 02:26 AM   #2
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Re: How can I approach a girl I don't know?

Just be yourself. But if she doesn't react too well then you should leave her alone obviously. What ever you do do not follow her around without saying anything. This has happened to me before: some guy once followed me from the metro to the bus stop and he kept following me. Finally he left but he pounded on the window of the bus stop really hard right behind me! You should just say whatever comes to mind, just don't act creepy and you'll do fine! A girl can deal with somone who is being kind that they don't know just fine. She may be a bit nervous if she doesn't know you like she's caught off gaurd, but that's OK.

Old 12-30-2003, 05:39 AM   #3
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Re: How can I approach a girl I don't know?

find something around to start a conversation about like a nice picture, anything you can make a comment about will do. I was extremely shy and I couldn't start any conversations but I would have been happy if someone started one with me about anything.

Old 12-31-2003, 09:21 PM   #4
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Re: How can I approach a girl I don't know?

Thanks for the input, any one else got any advice/tips? I'm not very good at meeting new people unless I am introduced or it just sorta happens. Say I was in the mall tho. What could I say to get me started?

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