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Old 06-04-2004, 11:22 PM   #1
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Crush = Problem

Ahhh, I am so frustrated!! I really really like this guy at my Gym, and i THINK he likes me too? We both work out but he's always giving me these side glances, he does look at me a lot. So..would this mean he likes me? I have no idea. There is this huge mirror at the gym and when Im doing the weights I can see him in the distance looking at me. Grr, I am so shy and that's part of my problem with guys. I have no confidence. Right when I am about to say Hi, I totally chicken out like a 10 yr old. I'm almost 17 and I'd like a male companion. Who doesn't? Second problem is, I think he is only here for a few months. He's from Costa Rica, and he's helping his cousins business I believe, or at least this is what my neighbor told me. And with the imagination that I have, I've been thinking.. what if we were to get together, he'd leave in a few months anyway? So it would be like I went through all of this for nothing. And i'm so afraid of rejection, I just am afraid he will be like "eww" at me lol. Oh lordy, Im so confused. And funny thing is, a few weeks ago I saw him on the train with this girl. Dunno? I have no idea if it was a Girlfriend, Friend, Cousin Etc..? No idea. I just like him a lot and I don't know how too approach him or what to do lol, someone help? =] Thankyou.

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Old 06-05-2004, 03:22 AM   #2
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Re: Crush = Problem

If he glances at you as you say, I would think he likes you too, unless you have a habit of running around with a hanging booger all the time trying to grab guy’s undivided attention and stealing side glances. That'll do it!

Just go up to him and say Hi. That will start up a conversation with him if he likes you. Ask him questions to confirm what your neighbor told you about him, about where he is from, how long he is staying in the U.S. before he returns home etc. etc. Just chit chat with him and at the appropriate moment mentioned that you saw him on the train “with his girlfriend”. That will trigger a response and he will let you know if it was really his girlfriend or not. That is what you want to know before you can plan your next step.

Even if you develop a friendship with him or maybe even a relationship and he moves back to Costa Rica, that is a nice place to live. Maybe he will invite you to visit him in his country.

Old 06-05-2004, 07:11 AM   #3
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Well if he is here for a few months then I am sure guessing he doesn;t have a GF and that girl may have been a trainer. What you need to do is go say hi. He is new to the area and he will be shy also. I know that you are scared of going to talk to him but a simple hi is nothing big. If that grows in to convo. then go with the flow.

Old 06-05-2004, 08:52 PM   #4
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Yes he probably does like you. That always happens with me if i like a girl and she likes me, we give eachother stupid glances until i stop being an idiot and go over and talk to her. Just go talk to him don't be shy. You'll regret it if you dont. If you do what you always do your gonna get what you always get.

Old 06-06-2004, 04:03 AM   #5
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Hi I havent been in this position in a lonnnnnnnnnnngggggggggg time lol but maybe you could try your training , gym work etc a little nearer to where he is doing it........That way then you wont feel like you are actually going out of your way to walk up to him and say If you are nearby him, you could just say hi how are you and see if he sparks up a conversation Anyway just an idea ! GOOD LUCK

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