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Old 06-25-2005, 11:49 AM   #1
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Confused Marriage Need some advice from other couples....

Here's my problem i've been married for almost ten years...I was nineteen when i got married and my husband was the same age...After getting married i moved away to my husband's home town which is about two hours away....We had our children when we were twenty two, i have two boys...I've been a house wife now for all these years...I feel i want more....Should i feel this way???
Why is it after living with someone for so many years you end up living with a friend...My husband is a wonderful man but does he really truely still love me...If he does where did the love go...I mean sexually he's always been there for that but love in general...Showing your feelings not just in a kiss goodbye....He is a work a holic never has time for anything else other than his hobby or cleaning his garage...I spend most of the time with my children or alone...Maybe i'm just lonely....
The only biggest problem that i have ever had with my husband is with the computer and the porn he was looking at...I didn't have a problem with it at first...It became a big problem to where he was doing this daily and lying about it...Not just looking once a couple of years ago i found him looking on a sex hook up site...Then when i looked more into it i found out he had put up his profile...Big arguement but he lied and said it wasn't him, yeah right...What did he think i was born yesterday...Now i think he still looks but not as often, i really wouldn't know because he erases everything in the computer after he uses...Sneaky...
We started to see a therapist for this whole dilema...At first we went together as a couple and my husband decided he didn't like it so he stopped going...Now after a few sessions my therapist told me that i should leave my husband...Leave and do what???What about my boys??I'm confused ....Help need some advice...Thanks

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Old 06-25-2005, 02:44 PM   #2
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Re: Confused Marriage Need some advice from other couples....

Hi there.

Im sorry to hear things are abit rough at the moment. I dont have experience in this.

It sounds like a tough one. Just take things one at a time. see how things go. If you feel that you in the house abit to much. Maybe take up a hobby. Where you go to classes. Like art, craft, or cooking classes.

I wish you the best.

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