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Old 01-18-2006, 08:57 AM   #1
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me and my boyfriend have been together for a little over 4 years now, and in my opinion what used to be a great relationship has come to a screeching halt. for me, i don't have the emotional relationship that i want to have...and for him, there is very little sex--mainly because i'm not all that into it (which obviously causes many problems)..we were supposed to be moving in together next august, but i'm starting to have 2nd thoughts about it. we always thought that we were "meant to be" but lately i'm just not sure anymore. i honestly have no idea what to do..i've tried talking to him about it, but it's hard to talk about it without him getting nervous about us breaking up (i don't know, maybe there's even a reason to be nervous). I'm just scared because he really is my only best friend, and i don't know what i'd do without him..but right now our relationship is more of close friends than practically engaged. what should i do??? i'm so lost and confused

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Old 01-18-2006, 08:41 PM   #2
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Re: confused

I did move in once with a boyfriend of 6 years. I also felt we were basically just really good friends who occasionally had sex. After a year of living together I had to ask him to leave. I wanted more than just a friendship. If you are having second thoughts it's either because you are scared or your heart really isnt into it. Only you know the answer to that. Listen to your gut, what is it telling you?

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