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Old 02-12-2006, 08:33 PM   #1
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Girls Vs Grown Women

My complaint:

It's very frustrating for me to see so many posts about girls who are complaining about love. I know, it's my problem and all I want to do is help my fellow women out there in cyberspace and give them the wisdom I have learned. I'm also a control freak.... my boss told me that one day and he said it's no wonder I made it up the corporate ladder so fast. I am working on that.

This is my Valentine's present to all of the women (and men) on this board who are wondering if they'll be getting any present(s) at all for Valentine's from someone. No need to wonder anymore. I got this from a friend of mine who sends me wonderful emails and this is one of my favourites. Now I know I'll be getting some arguements from girls over this thing, chop it up, analyze it, but it's up to you to put this truth to use. Only grown women know this for a fact.

Happy Valentines Day. My wisdom to yours.


Girls leave their schedule wide-open and wait for a guy to call and make plans.
Grown women make their own plans and nicely tell the guy to get in where he fits in.

Girls want to control the man in their life.
Grown women know that if he's truly hers, he doesn't need controlling.

Girls check you for not calling them.
Grown women are too busy to realize you hadn't.

Girls try to put a man 'on lock' by using sex.
Grown women know that it's the sex of the mental kind that makes a man want to 'lock' you down.

Girls fake-moan, lay there and take the stabbing.
Grown women say, "Just stop", get up, get dressed and walk it out.

Girls are afraid to be alone.
Grown women revel in it-- using it as a time for personal growth.

Girls ignore the good guys.
Grown women ignore the bad guys.

Girls make you come.
Grown women make you come home.

Girls worry about not being pretty and/or good enough for their man.
Grown women know that they are pretty and/or good enough for any man.

Girls try to monopolize all their man's time (i.e, don't want him
hanging with his friends).
Grown women realize that a lil' bit of space makes the 'together
time'even more special -- and goes to kick it with her own friends!

Girls think a guy crying is weak.
Grown women offer their shoulder and a tissue.

Girls want to be spoiled and 'tell' their man so.
Grown women 'show' him and make him comfortable enough to reciprocate
w/o fear of losing his 'manhood'.

Girls get hurt by one man and make all men pay for it.
Grown women know that that was just one man.

Girls fall in love, chase aimlessly after the object of their
affection, ignoring all 'signs'.
Grown women know that sometimes the one you love, don't always love you
back -- and move on, without bitterness.

Girls will read this and get an attitude.
Grown women will read this and pass on the wisdom to other Grown women !!

Happy Valentine's Day! Off to Fiji!


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Old 02-12-2006, 08:38 PM   #2
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Re: Girls Vs Grown Women

How true it all is! Does that mean I'm a grown woman?!?!

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Old 02-12-2006, 08:43 PM   #3
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Re: Girls Vs Grown Women

Well, I don't know which I am, so prob a little of both.

But, I do know I'm not getting anything for V-day, so thanks for my only present this year!

Old 02-12-2006, 09:06 PM   #4
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Re: Girls Vs Grown Women

Good advice Fabat40!! I am getting there......trying to anyway !

Happy Valentine's Day!!

(By the way, have FUN in Fiji!!!--Then come back and tell us all about it !)

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Old 02-13-2006, 05:34 AM   #5
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Re: Girls Vs Grown Women

Thanks, Fabat, for a GREAT read!!! I guess there are some advantages to being all grown up!!

Are you really off to Fiji????? OR did you think you would have to go there to avoid the wrath of some "girls"????

I guess only grown girls can go off to Fiji without inviting the others ....oh well, I guess I will conquer that island another time. For now I will leave it all to YOU!!! Have a great trip whether it be for real or in your wonderful mind!!!

((((HUGS)))) to all the girls & grown Women of this board!!! ~ Goody

Old 02-13-2006, 11:30 AM   #6
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Re: Girls Vs Grown Women

"Girls make you come.
Grown women make you come home."

Can't I do both and be a grown woman?
Mother is the word for God on the lips and hearts of children - The Crow

Old 02-13-2006, 12:05 PM   #7
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Re: Girls Vs Grown Women

I'm a girl...........HA HA HA HA HA HA

No really, they both fit--just gimme a situation to respond to--I could go either way.

Like the song goes..."I'm a b***h, I'm a lover, I'm a child, I'm a mother, I'm a sinner, I'm a saint, I do not feel ashamed!!"

And don't think for one second that we are not all girls at one time or another, whether we choose to admit it or not. Just like men--even the best ones are boys sometimes--no matter what their age.

Old 02-13-2006, 01:38 PM   #8
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Re: Girls Vs Grown Women

I used to be a girl, but I'm a grown woman now, unfortunately still finding myself surrounded by people who would prefer that I were still a little girl. But even grown women, like every human in the world, need love, acceptance, and a feeling of belonging to something larger than just themselves.

Old 02-13-2006, 02:48 PM   #9
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Re: Girls Vs Grown Women

Girls get hurt by one man and make all men pay for it.
Grown women know that that was just one man.

i would say that's a pretty important phrase.

Old 02-13-2006, 04:53 PM   #10
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Re: Girls Vs Grown Women

Originally Posted by Fabat40
Girls ignore the good guys.
Grown women ignore the bad guys.

Girls get hurt by one man and make all men pay for it.
Grown women know that that was just one man.
i agree with it all bar the 2 above

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