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Old 09-14-2006, 11:29 AM   #1
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Is she cheating?

I have a question that I hope someone with medical experience can answer. I am not sure if my wife is cheating on me, however, I have noticed that her vagina has been loose for quite a few weeks now. Is that a sign that she could be sleeping with others? Or what would cause this?

Are there any other physical sign I should look for?

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Old 09-14-2006, 11:36 AM   #2
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Re: Is she cheating?

As far as physical signs, I say no. You sound a bit paranoid to me. Is she doing anything else that raises suspicion? Usually a partner discovers cheating based on something other than a change in their body. As far as her vagina being different, I don't think there would be any significant changes caused by another man. You wouldn't be able to tell the difference just from that. I'm not sure what would cause that -- are you sure it is more loose? Could it be all in your head?

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Re: Is she cheating?

Are you serious? Not being harsh, but really,,,,Is this a serious question????
Just because YOU think her vagina is looser than normal does not mean she's cheating.
Has she ever given you a reason (other than your question) to believe she's cheating? If not, I think you are way too paranoid.
I say this because years ago I dated a guy that thought if I shaved my legs more than twice a week, I was cheating on him. Not the case - He was just paranoid.
Be careful with this - I dumped the guy that thought I was cheating on him.

Old 09-15-2006, 12:39 AM   #4
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Re: Is she cheating?

Maybe she picked up a new toy at the store, don't always assume the worst.

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Old 09-15-2006, 11:35 AM   #5
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Re: Is she cheating?

this question really stressed me out--it's a misconception i really hate for some reason. women don't become "looser" from too much sex--with men or machines. i mean, that area is designed to accomodate a baby's head--AND retain its shape, for the most part. of course, childbirth (esp. in older women) and age can be factors, but i'm guessing that if you were an older couple or had kids you'd probably already know the answer to this question.

i guess i shouldn't criticize. anyway, i absolutely guarantee that you cannot tell whether a woman is having an affair that way. maybe you've been more generous in the foreplay department lately? maybe your wife has been enjoying herself more? did you buy a new lube? different states of arousal in your wife, or even different levels of lubrication, might account for the change in sensation.

Old 09-15-2006, 11:50 AM   #6
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Re: Is she cheating?

On the other hand .........could it be..........your shrinking?

You can't tell a cheater by that area whether loose or tight. If other symptoms start showing up then it might be something to think about.


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Re: Is she cheating?

Shorty!!! I was just going to say the same thing but you beat me too it!!!

or maybe she's more turned on and she gets more lubricated making you think it's loose

it could be a good thing

Old 09-15-2006, 05:06 PM   #8
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Re: Is she cheating?

How old is your wife?

When women go thru menopause their hormones start going all over the place. With lack of estrogen, their vagina isn't as stretchy as before and they feel a bit looser.

Does she have any medical conditions, recent surgeries (like a hysterectomy?).

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