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Old 09-17-2006, 09:55 PM   #1
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Telling your friends about sex

Just wondering if girls get mad when a guy tells his friends that he is/has had sex with her. The relationship between the guy and the girl can be anything that is NOT an exclusive couple (i.e. dating, one-night stand, etc..) I'm not talking about bragging or giving specific details..but if one of my friends ask me "have you slept with her", I almost always tell the truth. Does this bother girls?

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Old 09-17-2006, 11:17 PM   #2
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Re: Telling your friends about sex

It only bothers a girl if it's getting around about the public. If you tell your close friend and you know it's only going to be between you two exclusively, or your group of closest buddies, then yeah it's alright. It pisses off the girl when you guys go to a movie and they're like "Man, I bet that ***** was tight"...right in front of her.

All in all, you had sex behind closed doors, she doesn't want it out flaunting about outdoors. That's the way most girls are anyways.

Old 09-17-2006, 11:37 PM   #3
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Re: Telling your friends about sex

I personally think its better just to not talk about who youve slept with in the past. I think talking about your partners can only lead to trouble and nothing good.

Old 09-18-2006, 02:39 AM   #4
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Re: Telling your friends about sex

This wouldn't bother me at all because we all have friends and we all talk to our friends about certain issues including sex and relationships. I talk to my female friends about the guys I like and if I'm in a relationship and what we do on dates etc. Not everyone knows what I get up to, it's just usually my closer friends and that's because I dont wish for everyone to know my business. You knows your mates and whether they would say something sarcastic about your girl or to your girl. My advice would be just talk to the people you trust the most. These are usually your closest friends anyway. Besides we all have questions when it comes to sex and relationships and usually your friends are good people to talk to about these things anyway, just like I'm sure you would listen to them too.
I hope this helps!

Old 09-18-2006, 12:44 PM   #5
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Re: Telling your friends about sex

Out of respect for the girl or girls who are you sleeping with, just ask them if it is OK to talk about it with others. Some girls might prefer that it stay private and you should respect her wishes. Communication is an important part of sex, so it is best to talk to your partner(s) to understand what they want.

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