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Jealousy for no reason.. how to get over it??

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Old 10-11-2006, 07:16 PM   #1
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Jealousy for no reason.. how to get over it??

I have a problem with getting jealous when my boyfriend talks to other girls, sits with them, hangs out with them etc. How can I feel more secure about myself to avoid getting so jealous? ... I know he loves me and wouldnt do anything to hurt me, but yet I always seem to feel jealousy and doubt. I really need to get over these insecurities, but I'm not sure how. Can anyone give me any advice??? Thanks.

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Old 10-12-2006, 06:29 AM   #2
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Re: Jealousy for no reason.. how to get over it??

I think that if you feel this way, maybe join in the conversation or hang out with them too, be an integral contributor of the conversation. Maybe this will help? All the best.

Old 10-12-2006, 07:15 AM   #3
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Re: Jealousy for no reason.. how to get over it??

Well, usually jealousy is something that comes from your own insecurities about yourself. Somewhere inside of you, you doubt that you're "good enough" for him, so you see him with someone else and it is scary for you. What you have to do is try to find ways to boost up your self esteem so that you will be more confident that he only wants you because of how great you are. This is not an easy thing to do. Sometimes daily affirmations can help (always telling yourself that you're great and worthy and all of that) or maybe you just need to set some goals for yourself and accomplish them -- anything that makes you feel better about yourself.

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