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Old 10-15-2006, 03:16 PM   #1
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"chemical" attraction?


I work in retail and deal with a heavy flow of people on a regular basis. Now there are some people that come in that I instantly like and continue to get along with even though I know nothing about them. Then there are the few people who come in and for no reason at all and without any knowledge of their lives I instantly don't like them. Even as the years pass by and no matter how nice they are to me I cannot seem to shake that intense feeling of dislike...I'm wondering if it IS a CHEMICAL thing or if something might have influenced the feeling.


If you happen to have any insight I would greatly appreciate it.

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Old 10-15-2006, 10:04 PM   #2
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Re: "chemical" attraction?

In my mind work is work and you don't have to like everybody. Unfortinately for some people I worked with there are no rules. I like you I would work with you, I don't like you for any reason I'll do everything to get rid of you.
I think you are acting professionally and so do people you work with.

Old 10-15-2006, 11:13 PM   #3
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Re: "chemical" attraction?

The same thing happens with me. I often meet a person, and something about the look in their eye, the way they talk, or the way they carry themselves really bothers me. Body language can tell you a lot about someone. I do take the time to try and figure out why, and get to know them better. Sometimes I find out that the person isn't a good person at all, and sometimes it turns out that I just have nothing in common with them. I'm picky about selecting friends and trusting people, and I've learned that your first instinct is usually the best thing to go by.

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