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Old 08-20-2008, 11:30 AM   #1
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Does he "love" me by saying this to me...?

hi everybody...thnaks for reading...the other day for the first time since we have been dating (about 4 months), my boyfriend told me he wanted to "make love" to me before we had sex. Neither of us have said "i love you" to eachother yet...however I think I fell for him a few weeks ago (before he said this to me). I'm just afraid to tell him because what if it scares him off since its only been a few months that we've been together? We are really close, and I find myself having to bite my tongue because I almost say I love you to him sometimes when we're together. I know it shouldn't be hard to say i love you or speak your true feelings if he's that special, but it's easier said than done. I have nothing against saying it first, because i know alot of people think the guy should always say i love you first, but it would be easier if i know that he may feel that way as well...He is rather reserved, so maybe he's feeling the same as me freaking out if he says iit to me? So back to my original question, by him saying "i want to make love to you" mean that he may actually love me and dropping a hint, or am I just doing some wishful thinking here? Thanks

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Old 08-20-2008, 11:37 AM   #2
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Re: Does he "love" me by saying this to me...?

He'll say "I love you" when he is ready to, and when he does. I don't mean to say that he doesn't, but he most likely won't drop hints or use euphemisms when he's ready.

I think he wanted you to know that it's not just sex he has with you, it is more than that, and that feelings are involved. That's nice...he's letting you know you are special.

The guy I'm dating did the same thing...he at first referred to having sex, then he said "when we make love" and told me that it wasn't just physical, that there are feelings, and that it makes it much better. So this is a good thing for you!

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