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Old 09-13-2008, 09:02 AM   #1
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My husband is just plain lazy...

My husband has no desire for anything sex,forget it . mow the yard projects he's started years ago helping me around the house etc etc. It is causing me to become very depressed to where i don't care myself. I was trying to do it all myself plus i too work a fulltime job i can't and won't do it my house now looks like a pig lives here and the grass is up to your knees he is always sleeping every waking moment

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Old 09-13-2008, 12:04 PM   #2
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Re: how many husbands are just plain lazy

Has he always been like this?

He may need either a doctor (he is unwell, but probably doesn't know he is or doesn't want to acknowledge it) or an active friend who can set him an example and push him out of his laziness.

Old 09-14-2008, 08:39 AM   #3
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Re: My husband is just plain lazy...

Maybe your husband is suffering form depression...unfortunately it is causing you to get depressed! Would he see a doc if you discussed it w/ him? Or has he always been like this?

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Re: My husband is just plain lazy...

Something is wrong with your husband's health.

You can't force him to see a doctor, but you might suggest it. You should see a psychiatrist or therapist to talk about this. You can always treat your own depression. Depression is kind of contagious.

Good luck!

Old 09-14-2008, 11:15 AM   #5
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Re: My husband is just plain lazy...

Or maybe he just needs a good kick up the back side?

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