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    Old 12-05-2008, 12:06 PM   #1
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    how to accept that your husband is not coming back

    my husband left me Oct 1, 2008. Says its not u-Its me-cares about me & wants to remain friends after 28 years of marriage. Was calling me everyday & coming over after that. The calls stopped 3 days ago after a heated arguement. I pushed him away. What do I do now? Tried everything possible.

     
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    Old 12-06-2008, 05:29 AM   #2
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    Re: how to accept that your husband is not coming back

    Start making a life without him. You cannot make somebody love you again if they have stopped. If it were me, I would push him away too, I would not be interested in friendship. Who would want to hang around having been demoted from SO to friend? Friendship may come down the road, but not during the breakup. You can be civilized without having to be friendly.

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    Old 12-09-2008, 01:15 PM   #3
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    Re: how to accept that your husband is not coming back

    let him go, move on, make plans for the rest of your life that don't include him.

     
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