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Old 08-27-2002, 03:08 PM   #1
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Unhappy dont go

I just met a girl, i've fallen in love with her but she wants to move back home 300 miles away! She doesn't know how much i feel for her and i feel a bit stupid telling her after knowing her only 3 weeks! how can i make her stay? She's only going coz she's lonely. I think if she trusted me and got to know me she would stay but i dont have much time heeeelllppp...

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Old 08-27-2002, 04:03 PM   #2
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Just a question- how old are the two of you?

Old 08-27-2002, 06:39 PM   #3
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my mom always told me this bit of advice, and its true.

if its meant to be, it will be right in 2 days, in 2 years, or in twenty years. it doesnt matter. let people live their lives, you will end up where you are supposed to be.

so tell her how you feel, and let her go. if shes moving because shes lonely, understand that ONE person is not going to change that. people need a network of friends in their lives to support them, and their family. i just moved 300 miles from San Diego back home for the next 5 months, and my boyfriend and i are having a hard time, we miss each other. but that doesnt change the fact that we are together, and we can work it out.

Old 08-29-2002, 02:59 PM   #4
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Pal - Send her on her way. There are plenty more where she came from.

Tell her how ya feel, let her go and see what happens. Who knows? She may come back!

I like what the other poster said..... If it's meant to be then it's meant to be and things will work out.

Good luck.

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Old 08-30-2002, 06:53 AM   #5
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I agree, if it is meant to be, it will be. Tell her how you feel and take one day at a time.

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