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Old 09-11-2002, 08:49 PM   #1
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Post Should she have a reason 2 be mad???

Ok I'm gonna try to make a long story short. My bestfriend and I have been real close for about 5 years now. We are like 2 peas in a pod. We used to do everything together. If I wasn't at her house she would be at mine. Let's keep in mind that she is a Jehova Witness. Now I am a Christian, but neway....I sometimes find myself not telling her everything. I just had to leave some things out. Well, my other friends are like you need to tell her, but I'm like naw I'm not. I was gonna tell her that I'm not a virgin n-e more. So finally I did. At 1st she acted like she didn't care. Then she started goin on about how could I have kept this from her and she thought we were best friends. I'm like we are, but I knew you was gonna act like this. Then start ramblin about how I shouldn't have told her, n how I'm gonna get a disease and I'm gonna get pregnant n when I do don't be surprised. She said if I wanna act like a hoe then so be it. I'm like What the BLEEP! Oh my gosh how are u gonna say that? I've only been wit 2 people and every precaution was took. She was like you just graduated high school n bla bla bla. I'm like ok, I don't need this. I know what I did wasn't the best thang. Ok I'm glad your savin yourself for marriage, but thats you. I feel like she doesn't have to agree wit what I do, but at least respect it. She is 18 years old n her mama don't let her do nothin. She can't watch rated R movies, her curfew is like 10:30 so I mean, I dunno. My mom keeps up wit me 2 but dang (I'm 18 too). So now we don't talk or nothin.


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Old 09-11-2002, 10:35 PM   #2
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I wouldn't let this come between your friendship. Your friend has a right to practice whatever religion she chooses and along with that comes different values and opinions (but just remember that opinions are like a**holes...everybody's got one!)

You should mention to your friend that she can think what she wants about you but do not disrespect you by calling you names. If she is truly your friend, she will respect your wishes. Who knows, one day she may even put her foot in her mouth!! LOL..I've seen it happen too many times.

I wouldn't worry about not telling her sooner b/c you didn't have to tell her at all. Some things are just better left unsaid. You knew what her reaction was going to be and you were only trying to avoid this situation right here!

Hope this helps~

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