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Old 11-19-2011, 02:18 AM   #1
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Im confused


Iam confused and need help i have been in relationship with one guy since 5 years he is a divorcee with kid (i met him through his ex wife) initially we were good i met his son and was quiet attached to the kid suddenly he stopped letting me come home and meet the kid. but we continued the relation he said he loves me but kept pushing marriage becoz his divorce was not done i never met his kid in last four years and now suddenly he says that he loves me but cannot marry me because he has to take care of his kid. i dont know why he did this... but still he calls me 15 times a day and speaks normally to me he says that we are good friends now but im confused i love him a lot i dont know what to do??

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Old 11-19-2011, 07:41 AM   #2
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Re: Im confused

I know that love can be great, but please open your eyes. Don't let it blind you. I know we shouldn't judge this man summarily, but from what you are telling us, it is not difficult to see that he is not only putting you in the second place, but also playing with you: he pushes you and pulls you back again, and this goes on and on, as long as you enable him to do so. It is in your hands, but I think you should move away from him for your own benefit. He is not the only man in the world. You know that, don't you?

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