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Old 11-25-2012, 04:49 PM   #1
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Unhappy Once again, I am the broken one...

I am the one who always gets hurt. But I still TRY to keep my heart open for someone else who comes along.

Well, I met this guy two years ago.

We became best friends. We talked all the time some times 'til 4am. He was all I had. I was all he had.

Long story short, we started to date 7 months ago.
- We get along so well.
- Have things in common.
- Laugh all the time.
- I can be myself around him.
- He makes me happy.

Things were going me at least.

He broke up with me on Thanksgiving. (Happy Thanksgiving to me!!! :\ )

( He did, however, find it difficult to breakup with me and had a hard time deciding if he wanted to)

He told me how we should go back to how we were before we started dating. He finds it easy to deal with. I find it very difficult to deal with talking to him every night knowing I cannot have him and seeing as how I still have very strong feelings for him. Yet, I find it even more difficult..."deleting" him from my life completely. We were such great friends and he is still my best friend.

What do I do guys? I want to keep him around because he means so much to me as a friend even though I still him???

Any advice/support is helpful to me.

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Old 11-26-2012, 03:22 AM   #2
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Re: Once again, I am the broken one...

I think the best thing we can do is move on with our lives. Engage our hobbies. Learn, grow, work at being happy independently of others and making better judgements about who we work at growing close to. Keep our hearts open to others while not allowing the pain inflicted upon us by them to darken our hearts towards them and how we'll treat others moving forward.

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Old 11-26-2012, 03:30 AM   #3
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Re: Once again, I am the broken one...

By the way, why did he break up with you?

See, I suspect doing so was quite the opposite of "difficult" for him as he claimed it to be. It reminds me of how "serious" she claimed she was about us moving towards an intimate relationship the same night she called it all off following actions that spoke to the contrary, citing reasons that too spoke to the contrary.

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