I have a boyfriend of 7 months, i recently got my downstairs tested as i had been having some irritation, i was told that i had BV and Thrush, so that eased my nerves about an STI as it seemed impossible to have one, so we had unprotected sex. although i still have to wait 10 days for the other test results to come in.
He told me that he had a sore testicle last night, and my bleeding has been very irregular and so i'm terrified i have Chlamydia. I'm almost 100% sure my boyfriend wouldn't cheat on me. But i need to tell him. I was in Turkey three weeks ago and there is a night i can't remember ANYTHING past three in the morning, i'm scared that i possibly got spiked and things may have happened for me to contract something like this. And if that kind of thing did happen i could have HIV or anything
Another possibility could be from having sex with someone in December, but i thought it would have been noticed by now, at least by him.
How do i go about telling my boyfriend when i don't know how it happened? I know i should wait for the results, but i'm so scared of losing him as if he thinks i cheated on him he will not forgive me. I want to know peoples advice in advance so i'm ready to tell him as soon as the results come in.
Please help <3