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    Old 11-22-2013, 09:34 PM   #1
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    Old 11-23-2013, 12:07 AM   #2
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    Re: So i have been dating my bf for 2 years and i have developed a little crush...

    Hi, I don't know exactly what your parents tell you, but I think you should listen to them for a change.

     
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    Re: So i have been dating my bf for 2 years and i have developed a little crush...

    Your instincts are telling you loud and clear that this relationship is not for you. You do not want to be saddled with a lazy, unmotivated pot smoking video game addict. Listen to your gut on this (and your parents, as Pendulum advised). Cheers, Sera

     
    Old 11-23-2013, 08:51 AM   #4
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    Re: So i have been dating my bf for 2 years and i have developed a little crush...

    I think you should cut them both loose and be alone for a while. Concentrate on getting through school and finding a job, and after you've accomplished that, then you can think about boys again.

    Your current boyfriend is going nowhere and if you stay with him, your life will suck. Not just because of his daily drug use but also because he is going nowhere in life and will likely work at that same gas station for the rest of his pathetic life, unless he gets fired first.

    The other guy is nothing more than a distraction right now and the only positive thing he has done for you is shown that there are other guys out there who you would be able to find that would be a lot more interesting than your current boyfriend. But this other guy is not right for you either because any guy or girl who goes after someone who is already in a relationship is a sleazebag and you don't want to date someone who would be willing to chase after someone who is already taken.

    It's time for you to put yourself first and leave the boys aside for a while so you can pursue your own interests. You will find it a lot easier to make much better relationship choices once you have taken the.time for you to get to know you better.

     
    Old 11-23-2013, 09:11 AM   #5
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    Re: So i have been dating my bf for 2 years and i have developed a little crush...

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    Hi, I don't know exactly what your parents tell you, but I think you should listen to them for a change.
    Haha they think that he is a lazy bum!

     
    Old 11-23-2013, 09:17 AM   #6
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    Re: So i have been dating my bf for 2 years and i have developed a little crush...

    You guys are all so right I need to take the time for myself and enjoy my youth being able to do whatever I want!! I'm not sure where I would go though... guess ill have to move back in with the rents ):

     
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