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    Old 04-09-2014, 02:29 PM   #1
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    Hey guys,

    Ive been with my girlfriend for almost a year now, and we're doing really good. We're both happy as far as I know, we see eachother once a week and talk online every day. Lately though Ive been having problems.

    As of late, I'm thinking about her ALL the time. When Im trying to get work done or doing stuff with other people, shes on my mind. She's only off my mind when I'm watching my favorite show, which I cant always do.

    Not only is she on my mind, but im worrying about a lot of things aswell. I worry Im not good enough for her, I worry she'll find someone better, I worry she isnt happy, and a bunch of other stuff too. Because of this I'm scared I'm being obsessive and not being thebbest boyfriend I could be.

    Does anyone know whats going on and what I can do to stop the worrying atleast, and maybe the thinking about her all the time too?

    Thanks

     
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    Old 04-11-2014, 10:26 AM   #2
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    Re: Thinking about my girlfriend WAY too much, starting to worry

    Hi, wow, you have a real party going on in your head. Get a grip man, the only threat to your relationship is you and your insecurities. Whatever you do do not tell her about your fear of abandonment as it could be a real turn off to her. Project only strength and confidence to her and do not act like a love sick puppy. I am sure she loves you so have trust in her and your relationship. If she looks up to you and your emotional strength she will never leave you. Learn to control your mind and not to let it make a chump out of you...

     
    Old 04-11-2014, 10:56 AM   #3
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    It's also very important to maintain your independence and sense of self while in a relationship, otherwise you're going to forget who you are as an individual. You have to balance your relationship with other people in your life like your friends and family. Don't be one of those people who ditches everyone just because you're in a relationship. Friends need to know they still have time with you and that your life doesn't solely revolve around your girlfriend.

     
    Old 04-11-2014, 11:38 AM   #4
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    It's also very important to maintain your independence and sense of self while in a relationship, otherwise you're going to forget who you are as an individual. You have to balance your relationship with other people in your life like your friends and family. Don't be one of those people who ditches everyone just because you're in a relationship. Friends need to know they still have time with you and that your life doesn't solely revolve around your girlfriend.
    I agree, good point Kszan......

     
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