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Board: Relationship Health 03-01-2007, 12:45 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 2,435
Posted By LostMyHeart
Re: disaster waiting to happen? Help me decide...

I'd go to guy #2 without a moment's hesitation.
Unless you really want all the drama that is sure to come from #1.
Board: Relationship Health 02-23-2007, 01:46 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 1,661
Posted By LostMyHeart
Re: Sparks?

Well do you ever initiate the affection?
I ask because he says this is how he is, and his parents are the same as him. I would assume if he's never had it, he's possibly not comfortable giving it....
Board: Relationship Health 02-03-2007, 04:11 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,975
Posted By LostMyHeart
Re: He's Just Not that into you!

That's how I feel - that's why I don't like those books.
I was always taught if you have to "play games", then it's not real anyway.
I'll never believe that that's ALL guys, but I'm thinking I'd...
Board: Relationship Health 01-31-2007, 07:49 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,975
Posted By LostMyHeart
Re: He's Just Not that into you!

I finally read it a few months ago.
I really wasn't that impressed considering all the rave about it, and it hasn't seemed to change anything for me. I don't buy half of it anyway.
Think it's...
Board: Relationship Health 01-26-2007, 08:36 AM
Replies: 44
Views: 3,579
Posted By LostMyHeart
Re: Advice please

OK, well regarding the guy I was in this situation with - One day I called his house, having no idea some girl would be there answering his phone, but that's exactly who answered. So I hung up and...
Board: Relationship Health 01-25-2007, 12:01 PM
Replies: 44
Views: 3,579
Posted By LostMyHeart
Re: Advice please

Yeah, but the difference in the "two guys" thread, is that they are all aware of what the situation is.

I think if he was really with her ONLY out of obligation, he wouldn't be sitting here too...
Board: Relationship Health 01-25-2007, 11:52 AM
Replies: 44
Views: 3,579
Posted By LostMyHeart
Re: Advice please

Just my opinion - speaking as another woman who has been there --- I couldn't agree more with LarryLou'smom. If it's over, it's over, so let it be over.
Whatever you think you will be getting out of...
Board: Relationship Health 12-19-2006, 08:54 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 650
Posted By LostMyHeart
Re: frustrated

I guess I can only speak for myself, but as I am in the same position as this girl, I can say the one thing that would make a difference to me would be having the guy actually stick it out and stay...
Board: Relationship Health 11-09-2006, 11:04 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 1,339
Posted By LostMyHeart
Re: How do you turn your heart off?

Thanks much, girls, for the replies.
At first I didn't ask about why the other rel ended, because I really didn't want to know about it. But then one day I asked and he said he's not going into...
Board: Relationship Health 11-09-2006, 10:43 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 742
Posted By LostMyHeart
Re: Family woes?

I understand what you mean, because my family is not even in my life, anymore. Talk about having nothing to share with someone. And I swear that is a huge part of why I have a hard time connecting...
Board: Relationship Health 11-09-2006, 10:32 AM
Replies: 37
Views: 3,408
Posted By LostMyHeart
Re: hes moving...temporarily.

Well, we stopped working, but right before that he had told me he was probably going to be moving out of state, which it looks like he has. I think of contacting him, but guess it'd be pointless...
Board: Relationship Health 11-08-2006, 10:34 AM
Replies: 37
Views: 3,408
Posted By LostMyHeart
Re: hes moving...temporarily.

Hi Citygirl. I really feel disappointed for you, too.:)
I know how incredibly hard it is to get back to dating after an excrutiating breakup, and how much harder to find someone to actually like....
Board: Relationship Health 11-08-2006, 09:57 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 1,339
Posted By LostMyHeart
Re: How do you turn your heart off?

I'm so confused. For the past week, I was sure turning my ex away was the best thing to do and thought it was what I wanted.
Now today, I feel like I want to try again.

He proved to me that he...
Board: Relationship Health 11-08-2006, 09:32 AM
Replies: 40
Views: 5,220
Posted By LostMyHeart
Re: Sad News about Ruth6:11

Wow, I'm very saddened by your news.
I wasn't really part of Ruth's "online family", and she probably doesn't even know just how much her words have always meant to me. I started coming here while...
Board: Relationship Health 11-05-2006, 08:49 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,025
Posted By LostMyHeart
Re: I feel stupid

Trust me, you did nothing wrong by calling him.
So you showed an interest. No big deal. Don't feel embarrassed because you were woman enough to be real about yourself, when he wasn't man enough to...
Board: Relationship Health 11-05-2006, 08:43 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 1,339
Posted By LostMyHeart
Re: How do you turn your heart off?

Well, I'm not acting on anything. It's my X.
If I let him back in my life, I know he'll just play with my emotions again, and I'm the one left hurt.
But if I tell him to go away (which is what I...
Board: Relationship Health 11-03-2006, 08:35 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 1,339
Posted By LostMyHeart
How do you turn your heart off?

I just want to be cold and empty inside. Like everyone else.
Anything has to be better than the feeling you're left with when it feels like someone is just playing with your emotions.
How do you...
Board: Relationship Health 10-22-2006, 09:58 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 640
Posted By LostMyHeart
Re: I just need a break!

No, I don't think it's too much at all. It would probably be your best move right now. Have fun!
Board: Relationship Health 10-22-2006, 09:53 PM
Replies: 26
Views: 2,832
Posted By LostMyHeart
Re: The moment I've been waiting for. Or is it?

So when do I get to be happy? I know he doesn't mean a word he says.
Where did I go so wrong that I have to keep going through this, over and over?
Board: Relationship Health 10-20-2006, 08:36 AM
Replies: 26
Views: 2,832
Posted By LostMyHeart
Re: The moment I've been waiting for. Or is it?

For the on again/off again part - We started out in a casual relationship. It was how we both wanted it at the time. So neither of us cared enough to change that. It was 2 yrs later when I developed...
Board: Relationship Health 10-20-2006, 08:11 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 3,306
Posted By LostMyHeart
Re: I know why relationships don't work anymore...

I think you make it work by believing in it -- by not letting all the negative media messages, or whatever else, out there impact your belief.
And I mean really believing in it.
Board: Relationship Health 10-19-2006, 09:27 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 879
Posted By LostMyHeart
Re: befriending an ex

I wouldn't bring it up. It's water under the bridge.

Maybe at a later time down the road. After (or if) you've connected on some type of friendship level first - you'll know then if it feels right...
Board: Relationship Health 10-19-2006, 09:17 PM
Replies: 26
Views: 2,832
Posted By LostMyHeart
Re: The moment I've been waiting for. Or is it?

In short, we were on again/off again for about 6 yrs.
Somewhere along the way (after I had met him), he also became involved with someone else. At one pt, someone had informed me they had something...
Board: Relationship Health 10-19-2006, 09:33 AM
Replies: 26
Views: 2,832
Posted By LostMyHeart
Re: The moment I've been waiting for. Or is it?

All I want is him. All I ever wanted was him....
But I know that doesn't mean I can have him.

I really don't know what he wants. He says he wants me in his life. That he never stopped thinking of...
Board: Relationship Health 10-18-2006, 05:28 PM
Replies: 26
Views: 2,832
Posted By LostMyHeart
Re: The moment I've been waiting for. Or is it?

I just don't know. Everyone said if he really cared he would go out of his way to prove it. Is this what he is trying to do? How do I know?

Don't want to be stupid, but what am I supposed to be...
Board: Relationship Health 10-18-2006, 08:06 AM
Replies: 26
Views: 2,832
Posted By LostMyHeart
Re: The moment I've been waiting for. Or is it?

He's showed up at my door twice. What do I do? Someone please tell me.
I told him he can't be in my life anymore, no matter how much I still care.
Could there really be hope here? I thought things...
Board: Relationship Health 10-12-2006, 09:06 AM
Replies: 58
Views: 5,302
Posted By LostMyHeart
Re: the "why buy the cow" speech

When I say no on the first date, they never call me again.
Board: Relationship Health 10-09-2006, 07:51 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,095
Posted By LostMyHeart
Re: why do I feel this way?

Every day of my life. Welcome to my world.:(
Board: Relationship Health 09-11-2006, 04:54 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 1,171
Posted By LostMyHeart
Re: update and thanks to everyone who's helped...

Well, I don't think I helped you, but I'm really glad to hear you are so happy with your bf and that things are going well. I wish you guys all the best.:)
Board: Relationship Health 09-09-2006, 08:39 PM
Replies: 26
Views: 2,832
Posted By LostMyHeart
Re: The moment I've been waiting for. Or is it?

Well, I picked up. But maybe shouldn't have.
He said he just wanted to talk to me. Like we're friends or something.
I really just froze up. Didn't know what to say - I wanted to say so much, but...
Board: Relationship Health 09-08-2006, 10:03 PM
Replies: 26
Views: 2,832
Posted By LostMyHeart
Re: The moment I've been waiting for. Or is it?

He didn't call back. And probably won't. Or maybe in another 2 yrs. :rolleyes:
Great, now I'll be sitting here in regret thinking I made the wrong choice. Ugh, why does he mess with me like this. ...
Board: Relationship Health 09-08-2006, 05:47 PM
Replies: 26
Views: 2,832
Posted By LostMyHeart
The moment I've been waiting for. Or is it?

Oh my. I really need some help here.

So, {the ex} called. Why does he still even have my #?
I didn't pick up. What if he tries again? Do I talk to him? Oh, I want to. So much. I want to tell him...
Board: Relationship Health 09-06-2006, 05:38 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 770
Posted By LostMyHeart
Re: im back (same crap)

Very much agree!!

I think browneyed had a great idea about you and your sister getting into counseling and work on repairing your relationship. (And forget these guys!)
Board: Relationship Health 09-06-2006, 05:31 PM
Replies: 43
Views: 3,661
Posted By LostMyHeart
Re: Significant Age difference

Quite often that is true. But also, remember, that those who realize what they had when it was gone, soon after forget again when they get it back.

I think there are a lot more issues at play...
Board: Relationship Health 09-05-2006, 04:52 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,035
Posted By LostMyHeart
Re: Overbearing work colleauge

Good for you for speaking your mind. I hope you can take the same initiative with your sister.:)
Board: Relationship Health 09-05-2006, 04:47 PM
Replies: 43
Views: 3,661
Posted By LostMyHeart
Re: Significant Age difference

I'm with the others - what happened to the new guy you met?
Are you still seeing him? Why choose the old guy over him?
Board: Relationship Health 09-05-2006, 04:45 PM
Replies: 37
Views: 3,850
Posted By LostMyHeart
Re: May I get some opinions on what you think I should do?

Yes, I think it's time to breakup.
These feelings seem to be going on for quite some time now. Suppressing them isn't going to change them.

If it's really meant to be, you will find your way back...
Board: Relationship Health 09-01-2006, 05:01 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 1,500
Posted By LostMyHeart
Re: Guilt

Thank goodness I am not the only one feeling that way.

I realize there are other issues at play here causing you to feel this way, but don't you think it would be more productive to get angry over...
Board: Relationship Health 09-01-2006, 04:51 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 837
Posted By LostMyHeart
Re: Sellfish sister

You need to tell her what time you are leaving and leave at that time.
That should be the end of story - leave no room for discussion.

As for the rest, if that is the way she chooses to live,...
Board: Relationship Health 09-01-2006, 04:41 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 746
Posted By LostMyHeart
Re: How do you know?!

I don't know. The guy I was most recently talking to was really good about calling when he said he would, and if he didn't answer my calls, he returned them promptly. I don't know if he just lost...
Board: Relationship Health 09-01-2006, 04:35 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 2,878
Posted By LostMyHeart
Re: Friends w/ benefits - Confused He wants to take it to the next level

I agree - I like people who are opposite as me, too. I think they open me up to new possibilites and ideas.:)
Board: Relationship Health 09-01-2006, 04:34 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,499
Posted By LostMyHeart
Re: Past Relationships: How Do I Respond??

Realizing that I have trust issues --- I, myself, would begin to get quite suspicious of someone seemed so hesitant to discuss anything regarding past relationships. I start to think that the lack of...
Board: Relationship Health 09-01-2006, 04:29 PM
Replies: 26
Views: 2,122
Posted By LostMyHeart
Re: relationship at work, what would you do?

If it were me, I wouldn't go back to work again. Point blank.
There are other jobs out there, and I for certain will not let someone make me feel bad continuously, as if there aren't other options...
Board: Relationship Health 09-01-2006, 04:26 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 2,878
Posted By LostMyHeart
Re: Friends w/ benefits - Confused He wants to take it to the next level

I think that no matter what, whether you give it a try or not, the friendship has already changed. And that there is now a potential for someone to get hurt either way.

If you try it, and it...
Board: Relationship Health 08-31-2006, 08:11 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 531
Posted By LostMyHeart
Re: Baised Comparisons

Oh goodness, it took me 2 years.:D
Well, I did talk to some guys before that point, but they didn't even come close to working out. I suspect I wasn't ready.
Actually, I still don't even know if...
Board: Relationship Health 08-31-2006, 07:59 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 1,460
Posted By LostMyHeart
Re: It's happening again

:D
Aww, thanks.
Board: Relationship Health 08-31-2006, 07:48 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 837
Posted By LostMyHeart
Re: Sellfish sister

I wouldn't do anything more than tell her what time you will be leaving the night before, then get up and leave at that time.
If she doesn't make it on time, that's her problem to handle. If it is a...
Board: Relationship Health 08-31-2006, 07:44 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 973
Posted By LostMyHeart
Re: How to hide my past

I wouldn't use that line regardless of your situation. It's very cliche and transparent - I think most people know it equivalates to "I don't have much past experience."
I'm with the others - be...
Board: Relationship Health 08-30-2006, 06:11 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 1,460
Posted By LostMyHeart
Re: It's happening again

Wow, no matter how many times I post here, I am always amazed at the incredibly generous feedback you all give!!
I guess the truth, although I may not want to admit it, is that somewhere deep down...
Board: Relationship Health 08-29-2006, 08:54 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 880
Posted By LostMyHeart
Re: Help, in major crisis!!

Well is that all you want?
The answer to that question will give you the answer to your question.
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