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Board: Relationship Health 12-07-2004, 03:07 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 1,526
Posted By eightball61
Re: newbie

Its just your emotions that are all over the place. You know what you did was wrong but the next approach is what to do know; tell or not to tell. Remember when you get married at the alter they...
Board: Relationship Health 12-07-2004, 02:35 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 1,813
Posted By eightball61
Re: I'm I wrong to feel this way...

I think that was a sweet thing to do. That right there shows you really care about her. She did by giving you that hug and maybe she just needed that to get the spark going again. She still has a...
Board: Relationship Health 12-07-2004, 01:29 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 3,318
Posted By eightball61
Re: Mid life crisis?

Well, this time when he developed feeling for the co-worker he told his wife I believe which was good for him to do. All the other times she either found out by a source or just in general. Maybe...
Board: Teen Health 12-07-2004, 01:24 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 554
Posted By eightball61
Re: Help plz! I want to go out w. her

She seems very unsure about dating you at this time. You both are friends and you need to take that into consideration. She is still made even though she accepted your apology and she has to see if...
Board: Teen Health 12-07-2004, 01:16 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 806
Posted By eightball61
Re: Something that annoys me....

Gotta love this site :D
Board: Relationship Health 12-07-2004, 12:30 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 3,318
Posted By eightball61
Re: Mid life crisis?

Thats it.....If he goes for the help and open to the idea then he will prove his love by getting the help. He did state he wanted help but saying it and doing it are two different things. By the...
Board: Relationship Health 12-07-2004, 12:01 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 3,318
Posted By eightball61
Re: Mid life crisis?

Why don't you try to take the right steps with him and guide him in the the counseling sessions for him and you both. See how it goes because its worth a shot. See what he thinks about both ideas...
Board: Relationship Health 12-07-2004, 11:45 AM
Replies: 78
Views: 8,895
Posted By eightball61
Re: How do you know you've met "The right one"?

I guess I am just an ol' fart then that likes to stay home. If you weren't married then I would introduce you to her :p But I do agree although opposites can attract and thats why maybe they...
Board: Relationship Health 12-07-2004, 11:31 AM
Replies: 78
Views: 8,895
Posted By eightball61
Re: How do you know you've met "The right one"?

I do agree with that and maybe its part of compromising. If he wants this to last then he will have to show somewhat more ambition.
Board: Relationship Health 12-07-2004, 11:00 AM
Replies: 34
Views: 3,318
Posted By eightball61
Re: Mid life crisis?

I have to agree to thats and thats the only way to keep the ball rolling. Its going to take the both of them but more of him wanting to make that change and seek help. The other thing is that he...
Board: Relationship Health 12-07-2004, 10:58 AM
Replies: 38
Views: 2,171
Posted By eightball61
Re: Late Again?!?!!?

You are right and thats all it leads to....We will see what happens.
Board: Relationship Health 12-07-2004, 10:55 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 1,526
Posted By eightball61
Re: newbie

See thats just it....we don't know how he will react and nor wood you. If you feel you can put this behind you and take a lessoned learned then take that route. The decision lies upon you but I...
Board: Relationship Health 12-07-2004, 10:51 AM
Replies: 78
Views: 8,895
Posted By eightball61
Re: How do you know you've met "The right one"?

I know its not about staying home but what about you suggesting something to eat? How about trying what I suggested about you make plans for one night then he makes the plans. That will give you...
Board: Relationship Health 12-07-2004, 10:36 AM
Replies: 78
Views: 8,895
Posted By eightball61
Re: How do you know you've met "The right one"?

Thats the difference you both share. I am this type of guy. I like to do things but I am more laid back like this. The reason why is I don't like the public to well and if I am spending time with...
Board: Relationship Health 12-07-2004, 10:32 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 1,526
Posted By eightball61
Re: newbie

Its either that or do what I think is the right thing and tell him...Its just my opinion though.

As a question though; If he did something like this would you want him to tell you?
Board: Relationship Health 12-07-2004, 10:15 AM
Replies: 78
Views: 8,895
Posted By eightball61
Re: How do you know you've met "The right one"?

I understand you completely but only you can determine what you are looking for. As the person on the other side all I can suggest is maybe give it some more time. You are never wasting time with...
Board: Relationship Health 12-07-2004, 10:07 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 1,526
Posted By eightball61
Re: newbie

It depends what your gut tells you in the end...Have you been the type that can hold things in without it ever bothering you or are you the type that needs to let it out to get it off your chest?
Board: Relationship Health 12-07-2004, 10:05 AM
Replies: 34
Views: 3,318
Posted By eightball61
Re: Mid life crisis?

I am far from ever being married but let me tell you that my parents almost went through a divorce because my father did something stupid like this. My mom wasn't stupid and found out. They went to...
Board: Relationship Health 12-07-2004, 09:54 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 1,526
Posted By eightball61
Re: newbie

Simple he has no heart........You have a heart though and thats what makes you special. There is no need to knock on you because you see what you did wrong. The decision now hold though to tell your...
Board: Relationship Health 12-07-2004, 09:50 AM
Replies: 78
Views: 8,895
Posted By eightball61
Re: How do you know you've met "The right one"?

You not wasting his time nor yours....What you both are trying to accomplish is for ssomething to lead further into the future. Negative thoughts only pushes that process back. Look for more...
Board: Relationship Health 12-07-2004, 09:41 AM
Replies: 34
Views: 3,318
Posted By eightball61
Re: Mid life crisis?

1.About four years ago I discovered my hubbie was trying to cheat on me through an internet person he had found.

2.Turned out he had had sex with other women (2) before, but promised it didn't...
Board: Teen Health 12-07-2004, 09:08 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 806
Posted By eightball61
Re: Something that annoys me....

Well the words "why" or "What" have been ways in the past to buy someone time to think of a response. Don't think of it being bad because you are just asking to communicate with them.
Board: Relationship Health 12-07-2004, 09:07 AM
Replies: 34
Views: 3,318
Posted By eightball61
Re: Mid life crisis?

She done that before and everything was good until he went on a business trip and fell for a co-worker. :rolleyes:
Board: Relationship Health 12-07-2004, 08:39 AM
Replies: 34
Views: 3,318
Posted By eightball61
Re: Mid life crisis?

I don't get it..... :confused: He understands whats wrong but still continues to do it.

I guess its good he see a problem but why does he do it and what he needs to understand.
Board: Relationship Health 12-07-2004, 08:38 AM
Replies: 60
Views: 10,022
Posted By eightball61
Re: Ex-wife at dinner

Nothing will ever get done about this if this situation is just left in your thoughts.
Board: Relationship Health 12-07-2004, 08:37 AM
Replies: 216
Views: 21,693
Posted By eightball61
Re: No choice but to let go?

See :) You have alot of great things happening right now. There are set backs that have been hapening with your feelings but overall as I said things are starting to look better. You never know...
Board: Relationship Health 12-07-2004, 08:35 AM
Replies: 38
Views: 2,171
Posted By eightball61
Re: Late Again?!?!!?

I wouldn't leave just like that....You did tell him what you needed to tell him before but you need to lay down the rules. You need to make up a planner for him to do everyday and stuff for you. ...
Board: Relationship Health 12-07-2004, 08:02 AM
Replies: 36
Views: 2,577
Posted By eightball61
Re: relationship issues

Right....She is causing the stress. That si why I said just to answer that phone and get what ever you need to have done and get it done. Dragging this out and she calling is not helping. If you...
Board: Relationship Health 12-07-2004, 07:52 AM
Replies: 216
Views: 21,693
Posted By eightball61
Re: No choice but to let go?

& that decision so far has turned out to be ok. You seem to be getting better even though you are having down days but not making anymore attempts to contact him is a huge step...Good for you :angel:
Board: Relationship Health 12-07-2004, 07:42 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 856
Posted By eightball61
Re: so heartbroken

She is basically saying its over....Just go pick up your stuff and ask her never to call again. I know its hard but she has left you for this new relationship and there is no need to stick around.
Board: Relationship Health 12-07-2004, 07:14 AM
Replies: 38
Views: 2,171
Posted By eightball61
Re: Late Again?!?!!?

Yelling may work but not always the solution to a problem. He was ready and did the things though and did the things you told him to do which is a start. I know its hard not to yell at someone that...
Board: Relationship Health 12-07-2004, 06:28 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 721
Posted By eightball61
Re: What Does It Mean When...

Read this thread http://www.healthboards.com/boards/showthread.php?t=219685

It could be helpful....but basically she is saying she wants you to be more like a guy or at least stick up for yourself...
Board: Relationship Health 12-07-2004, 06:24 AM
Replies: 216
Views: 21,693
Posted By eightball61
Re: No choice but to let go?

The only way to start letting it go is if you stop thinking about calling him or putting anymore effort to something he isn;t even trying for. The Holiday vacation will be how ever you make it to...
Board: Relationship Health 12-07-2004, 06:15 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 5,109
Posted By eightball61
Re: Girlfriend's cranky and has mood swings aplenty

I know how you feel and your feeling feel trapped at this point....You are like a lost little boy. You don't know what to do. I have been there...The thing is she is pushing you back. The only way...
Board: Relationship Health 12-07-2004, 06:12 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 1,526
Posted By eightball61
Re: newbie

I am going against the grain here but if the co-worker is acting like nothing happened then she should also. The problem I see is that she loves her fiance and feels bad about this. I think this is...
Board: Relationship Health 12-07-2004, 06:07 AM
Replies: 36
Views: 2,577
Posted By eightball61
Re: relationship issues

Great venting piece :)


If you really want to see what she has to say then just pick up the phone once. Give it a shot and hear her out. It has been a game all along and you have to voive that...
Board: Relationship Health 12-07-2004, 05:55 AM
Replies: 38
Views: 2,171
Posted By eightball61
Re: Late Again?!?!!?

The problem that I am starting to see with these situations is that other people don't care as much as we think they do. They know you have a time to meet but they are more of thinking about thiers...
Board: Relationship Health 12-07-2004, 05:52 AM
Replies: 39
Views: 3,256
Posted By eightball61
Re: He's OK with me having a male roommate!

I know you are happy about this but I have to agree with Hoop here....Why turn it into an issue when your boyfriend never made it an issue?
Board: Relationship Health 12-07-2004, 05:50 AM
Replies: 34
Views: 3,318
Posted By eightball61
Re: Mid life crisis?

You love him but does he actually love you? Think about that one :confused:
Board: Relationship Health 12-07-2004, 05:49 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 880
Posted By eightball61
Re: Dont know if I should still talk to family

Don't care about that...If they don't care enough about you both then why should you all care about how they treat other. They put it on themselves...
Board: Relationship Health 12-07-2004, 05:47 AM
Replies: 39
Views: 2,494
Posted By eightball61
Re: want to get something right

Take it as Sophia said also....Don't Beat yourself up over this. It happens and like the ol' saying "crap happens". You will meet someone else. The only way of that not happening is if you are not...
Board: Teen Health 12-07-2004, 05:40 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 806
Posted By eightball61
Re: Something that annoys me....

They should never answer a question with the answer allready in the question.
Board: Teen Health 12-07-2004, 05:34 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 947
Posted By eightball61
Re: what the heck to buy

Just play a game with him and tell him you want to get to know him better. You ask a question then he ask a question.
Board: Teen Health 12-06-2004, 03:29 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 731
Posted By eightball61
Re: my best friend's sister... help!

Young guy having mature thoughts....Don't take that the wrong way. I meant no harm.

Anyway, you seem very mature for you age because most people wouldn;t think of thier friends first. You are...
Board: Relationship Health 12-06-2004, 03:20 PM
Replies: 39
Views: 3,256
Posted By eightball61
Re: He's OK with me having a male roommate!

I hope this doesn't get taken the wrong way but I hope are not replacing your BF with this male roomate to what it be like living with your boyfriend. :eek:
Board: Teen Health 12-06-2004, 03:11 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 625
Posted By eightball61
Re: love problem

I didn't mean to have that kind of impact :p


Thanks ;)
Board: Relationship Health 12-06-2004, 03:02 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 693
Posted By eightball61
Re: Maybe? Maybe not?

Its a risk...It like dating a best friend in a way. If you both end up braking up then the friendship will never be the same, you will try to dodge eachother at work, or in a fight or focus will be...
Board: Relationship Health 12-06-2004, 02:48 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 1,523
Posted By eightball61
Re: Having a bad day need help!

You know hiding the phone call does seem suspicious but you thing he would really be dumb enough to chance answering the phone while your around if he was cheating? Some people like to have the...
Board: Anxiety 12-06-2004, 02:28 PM
Replies: 41
Views: 3,322
Posted By eightball61
Re: It's My Fault

Your welcome but remember to keep us posted and maybe make a list out on things you want to change and check them off as you are doing it. Take care :wave:
Board: Relationship Health 12-06-2004, 02:05 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 3,318
Posted By eightball61
Re: Mid life crisis?

A mid-life crises to me is a big excuse to get out of a mess. Sure after many years with the same partner some people venture off and thats where this term cam up just about. As I see it if he was...
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