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Board: Sexual Health - General 06-13-2006, 11:17 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 7,608
Posted By SomeRandomDude
Re: Am I the only above 24 but not 30 yet virgin male who never had a girlfriend her

Rest assured you're not the only one.

I pretty much stopped posting here... because I think my complaining about my depression..... virgin state (will turn 27 in November) etc got sorta redundant....
Board: Relationship Health 02-15-2006, 07:25 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 1,755
Posted By SomeRandomDude
Re: How'd everyone do...

Hopefully you don't mind a male perspective....

It was pretty miserable... but you know what?

It's not always going to be this way.

I'm not firmly entrenched in that line of thinking... but...
Board: Relationship Health 02-15-2006, 04:40 PM
Replies: 167
Views: 18,033
Posted By SomeRandomDude
Re: Singles Prefer to Stay Single??

I heard about this study... not sure I buy into it though.

I mean my lonliness is well established on here... and I know of quite a few people, both on and off line who feel the same way.

I...
Board: Sexual Health - General 02-14-2006, 07:55 PM
Replies: 71
Views: 25,551
Posted By SomeRandomDude
Re: Honest question.. Re: older male virgins

Well Valentine's Day is almost over... thank God!

To the rest of you in the same boat... may this be your last Valentine's Day alone.

I'm not optimstic about my own situation, but that doesn't...
Board: Sexual Health - General 02-11-2006, 04:19 PM
Replies: 71
Views: 25,551
Posted By SomeRandomDude
Re: Honest question.. Re: older male virgins

I'm still around.... and have been reading all the replies.

Have simply been too busy to reply.

To touch base on a some things in the thread and to answer some questions... I decided to make...
Board: Sexual Health - General 02-07-2006, 10:05 PM
Replies: 71
Views: 25,551
Posted By SomeRandomDude
Re: Honest question.. Re: older male virgins

How can you be so sure, that someone would be willing to overlook it?

Just stop and think about it... kids these days are losing their virginty before they can legally drive... and I'm slowly...
Board: Sexual Health - General 02-07-2006, 09:43 PM
Replies: 71
Views: 25,551
Posted By SomeRandomDude
Re: Honest question.. Re: older male virgins

It sucks..... causes extreme lonliness and depression and makes one sometimes even long for death.

That about sums it up
Board: Sexual Health - General 02-06-2006, 11:03 AM
Replies: 71
Views: 25,551
Posted By SomeRandomDude
Re: Honest question.. Re: older male virgins

This is going to be long and I apolgize.....

First off mochi and pink floyd... I'm not going to get into who's advice I should, or shouldn't take. I appreciate you both taking the time to post and...
Board: Sexual Health - General 02-02-2006, 03:35 PM
Replies: 71
Views: 25,551
Posted By SomeRandomDude
Re: Honest question.. Re: older male virgins

Firstly no offense taken with your inital post and don't want you to think there was. I actually got a bit of a kick out of it and felt underneath the light hearted sarcasm, there was some definite...
Board: Sexual Health - General 02-01-2006, 07:29 PM
Replies: 71
Views: 25,551
Posted By SomeRandomDude
Re: Honest question.. Re: older male virgins

Firstly PaperDoll:

Essentially.... to a degree anyway... yes they are losers because of it. That's the way I feel and the way I shall remain feeling. If that makes me judgemental, then oh well......
Board: Sexual Health - General 01-29-2006, 07:45 PM
Replies: 71
Views: 25,551
Posted By SomeRandomDude
Re: Honest question.. Re: older male virgins

Thanks for the kind words and encouragement everyone. Veronica I must say you seem to have quite the head on your shoulders and I'll look into the book you mentioned and perhaps the therapy options...
Board: Sexual Health - General 01-27-2006, 10:16 PM
Replies: 71
Views: 25,551
Posted By SomeRandomDude
Re: Honest question.. Re: older male virgins

Wish I could say what caused my depression, to be truthful though.... I don't know!

Just something I've dealt with for most of my life. I'm not a confident person, think of myself as being hideous...
Board: Relationship Health 01-27-2006, 09:59 PM
Replies: 30
Views: 11,122
Posted By SomeRandomDude
Re: Not attending my brothers or my sister's wedding....

I'm sure I was the only one that noticed, didn't make it hurt any less though...

I am very young all things considered, but still a virgin.. and NOT young by virgin standards... the more years...
Board: Sexual Health - General 01-27-2006, 09:35 PM
Replies: 71
Views: 25,551
Posted By SomeRandomDude
Honest question.. Re: older male virgins

I first posted I was a virgin over a year ago.... Now 26 and still a virgin.

I've heard people say that being an older virgin can be commendable... I've heard others say that it's not a big deal....
Board: Depression 12-31-2005, 11:27 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,003
Posted By SomeRandomDude
Re: 2006 or bust!

The sex part of the equation would be much much easier, if my roommate didn't have such good luck with females. If he wants to form a relationship... he does so, with little problems.

If he wants...
Board: Depression 12-31-2005, 10:48 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,003
Posted By SomeRandomDude
Re: 2006 or bust!

Well fair enough, but that's far from my only issue (though I'll admit it's one of the biggest ones)

I would wager the percentage of women who iwould choose A if given the choice of.....

A:...
Board: Depression 12-31-2005, 10:22 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,003
Posted By SomeRandomDude
2006 or bust!

I turn things around 'this' year, or I just say screw it and give up on ever being happy.

That's my new years resolution... doing everything in my power to make a better life for myself.

My...
Board: Sexual Health - General 12-29-2005, 11:47 PM
Replies: 55
Views: 7,875
Posted By SomeRandomDude
Re: 20+ guys who haven't started yet.

For what it's worth... my feelings about bars are much the same.

Sure there are exceptions, but more often than not I don't think of bars as being a viable place to meet someone.. at least not...
Board: Relationship Health 12-29-2005, 11:42 AM
Replies: 30
Views: 2,865
Posted By SomeRandomDude
Re: Internet dating advice

Ok I suppose it wouldn't hurt.

I'm determined to keep this post short and sweet, as I keep on making edits to my other posts haha... get it all out this time.

Just hope that I have 'some' luck...
Board: Relationship Health 12-29-2005, 11:34 AM
Replies: 30
Views: 2,865
Posted By SomeRandomDude
Re: Internet dating advice

Sigh.... I guess I just fear that I'm never going to date or more importantly find 'the one'

I don't see my personality ever changing to the point, that I do the persuing... just don't think I've...
Board: Relationship Health 12-29-2005, 11:17 AM
Replies: 30
Views: 2,865
Posted By SomeRandomDude
Re: Internet dating advice

Point taken! but really why is it that way? I mean hell it's damn near 2006... it seems like girls would have gotten to the point of doing the approaching at least some of the time...

....and for...
Board: Relationship Health 12-29-2005, 11:12 AM
Replies: 30
Views: 2,865
Posted By SomeRandomDude
Re: Internet dating advice

I've had zero luck with this.

thought it would be easier than dating in the real world (being shy and all) but nothing... I've had all of 12 people look at my profile (been up since October or so)...
Board: Open to All Other Health Topics 12-29-2005, 10:49 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,327
Posted By SomeRandomDude
Re: random racing heart

You will no doubt want to get it checked out.. though don't stress, it could be nothing.

My heartbeat fluctuates all over the place. A few years back while working as a train conductor, I had to...
Board: Depression 12-29-2005, 10:45 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,624
Posted By SomeRandomDude
Re: Thinking about trying herbals again

Anyone have any feedback on this at all?

Would 'you' personally feel enough time has passed and feel save making the switch?

and for the record I ask... because it says right there on the...
Board: Depression 12-26-2005, 12:10 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,624
Posted By SomeRandomDude
Thinking about trying herbals again

To this day the best relief I ever got was from this stuff called "St. John's Positive Thoughts"

It had St. John's Wort and various other mood altering herbs, as well as various amino acids. It...
Board: Relationship Health 12-25-2005, 11:40 PM
Replies: 30
Views: 11,122
Posted By SomeRandomDude
Re: Not attending my brothers or my sister's wedding....

I guess it's a co dependency issue to a degree.

I can't have fun alone, because I'm so lonely. This lonliness has gotten to the point, where it's really quite overwhelming and effects my day to...
Board: Sexual Health - General 12-25-2005, 09:09 PM
Replies: 55
Views: 7,875
Posted By SomeRandomDude
Re: 20+ guys who haven't started yet.

Hey Van... ever hear the term love shyness?

I hadn't until tonight, but I found some info on it online and it sounds like it's something that fits me to a tee. I know you are going through some of...
Board: Relationship Health 12-25-2005, 09:07 PM
Replies: 30
Views: 11,122
Posted By SomeRandomDude
Re: Not attending my brothers or my sister's wedding....

Thanks everyone.

Hiya..... please hang in there and don't give up (and yes I realize I sound like a hypocrite saying that)

You all have been beyond helpful and I can't thank you enough. I truly...
Board: Relationship Health 12-25-2005, 10:26 AM
Replies: 30
Views: 11,122
Posted By SomeRandomDude
Re: Not attending my brothers or my sister's wedding....

Yeah I'm going to attend.... reluctantly. Don't like my chances of meeting someone though, would classify the odds as slim to none of that happening.

I do sound alot like your boyfriend, I don't...
Board: Relationship Health 12-25-2005, 10:16 AM
Replies: 30
Views: 11,122
Posted By SomeRandomDude
Re: Not attending my brothers or my sister's wedding....

What is it about me? Well I'm not overly attractive... have a major case of both clinical depresssion and social anxiety disorder... oh and of course the fact that girls pretty much ignore my...
Board: Relationship Health 12-24-2005, 08:37 PM
Replies: 30
Views: 11,122
Posted By SomeRandomDude
Re: Not attending my brothers or my sister's wedding....

Doubtful.

You don't know how hopeless my situation really is. I mean FIVE years.. that says it all... well actually a little over five years. since I've even went on a date. Girls just have zero...
Board: Relationship Health 12-24-2005, 08:23 PM
Replies: 30
Views: 11,122
Posted By SomeRandomDude
Re: Not attending my brothers or my sister's wedding....

Perhaps you are right... this is just so hard for me to accept.

The whole being single and craving what they both have and there being no end in sight to my own lonliness.

I guess I'm going to...
Board: Relationship Health 12-24-2005, 07:44 PM
Replies: 30
Views: 11,122
Posted By SomeRandomDude
Not attending my brothers or my sister's wedding....

Does this make me a bad person?

My five year older sister and my five year younger brother are both engaged to be married within the next year and though they want me to, I'm not planning on...
Board: Relationship Health 12-23-2005, 09:09 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 955
Posted By SomeRandomDude
Re: self-esteem

Sounds alot like me.... I'm much the same way.

You're already one up on me though.... I always tell myself I'm starting therapy and then lack the commitment to do it. (doesn't help that I'm scared...
Board: Sexual Health - General 12-22-2005, 10:06 AM
Replies: 55
Views: 7,875
Posted By SomeRandomDude
Re: 20+ guys who haven't started yet.

I agree with this..... I had friends at one time.. hell alot of friends at that, but I've alienated them all over the years and now have none. Could only take no for an answer so many times. "want to...
Board: Sexual Health - General 12-22-2005, 10:00 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 6,646
Posted By SomeRandomDude
Re: Strange kinks and fetishes.. don't want them anymore....

They are indeed VERY strong.. wouldn't really be cheating though, as it would be a mutual understanding between the two of us.

Don't know if I would enjoy dominating during sex, because as of now...
Board: Sexual Health - General 12-20-2005, 09:10 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 6,646
Posted By SomeRandomDude
Re: Strange kinks and fetishes.. don't want them anymore....

True that would be a simple solution... until you take into account, I'm not sure if I don't want these things to take place. soooooo confusing!

Sometimes I think I want them, just as much as I...
Board: Sexual Health - General 12-20-2005, 09:03 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 6,646
Posted By SomeRandomDude
Re: Strange kinks and fetishes.. don't want them anymore....

To touch base on something before I start, hard to know if it were real or not Rose.... I'm naturally submissive and would have little trouble submitting to a woman.. for real and not a game (in alot...
Board: Sexual Health - General 12-20-2005, 08:47 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 6,646
Posted By SomeRandomDude
Strange kinks and fetishes.. don't want them anymore....

I'll cut to the chase here... most of these are related to a BDSM context.. and many have a humiliation theme.

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Now that we have that out of the way, I ask that you please don't...
Board: Relationship Health 12-20-2005, 07:43 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,283
Posted By SomeRandomDude
Re: Men and computer PORN

Guys like porn simple as that.

I'm single... have been damn near my entire life, but if I met 'the one' tonight, would I stop looking at porn? I'm not so sure..... I could likely curb it and cut...
Board: Depression 12-18-2005, 10:22 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 3,101
Posted By SomeRandomDude
Re: Update on Lexapro.

I don't know..... as of now anyway, I really don't think I could go through with a relationship beyond 30.... and certainly don't think I could go through 'first time' sex at beyond 30.

I'm...
Board: Relationship Health 12-17-2005, 04:37 PM
Replies: 43
Views: 4,677
Posted By SomeRandomDude
Re: When did it become fashionable for boys to treat girls like garbage?

This has some definite truth to it...

Hell it's in large part the reason I've still yet to score at 26 (and quite possibly never will) and can't ever get any girls to show any interest.(and again...
Board: Relationship Health 12-17-2005, 04:29 PM
Replies: 43
Views: 4,677
Posted By SomeRandomDude
Re: When did it become fashionable for boys to treat girls like garbage?

All I know is this:

I've always been one that tends to treat women well, for what it's worth I'm also the one that has NO luck with females, while my friends who don't treat them so nicely have...
Board: Depression 12-16-2005, 11:45 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 3,101
Posted By SomeRandomDude
Re: Update on Lexapro.

Fair enough, but I bet those 65 year olds aren't enjoying sex too much.

In a cruel twist of fate there's scientific evidence proving that a female's sexual peak is in her early 30's and a male's...
Board: Depression 12-16-2005, 10:57 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 3,101
Posted By SomeRandomDude
Re: Update on Lexapro.

I think you're onto something...

Really as silly as it sounds, something as simple as having luck with a female.... ANY kind of luck... even mearly telling me I'm attractive would go a...
Board: Sexual Health - General 12-14-2005, 08:16 PM
Replies: 55
Views: 7,875
Posted By SomeRandomDude
Re: 20+ guys who haven't started yet.

Ok I'll take the plunge and give it a watch.. hope I indeed don't find it offensive.

It's funny I'm generally openminded and it takes a whole lot to offend me.

I guess the virginity thing is...
Board: Depression 12-14-2005, 08:13 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 3,101
Posted By SomeRandomDude
Re: Update on Lexapro.

What you say makes sense.. things could always be worse and I agree for the most part.

I DON'T agree about there being nothing wrong with being single... There are a ton of things wrong with it......
Board: Sexual Health - General 12-12-2005, 06:30 PM
Replies: 55
Views: 7,875
Posted By SomeRandomDude
Re: 20+ guys who haven't started yet.

I've heard the samething from various people online (not in person.. too ashamed to admit my virginity to anyone in person.... even friends and family.. sadly I think it would help to get it out, but...
Board: Depression 12-11-2005, 11:40 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 3,101
Posted By SomeRandomDude
Re: Update on Lexapro.

I've always heard that booze is a downer.

Don't think it makes things worse (at least as often as I do it... about once a month at most)

I normally don't even drink to get drunk... just drink a...
Board: Depression 12-11-2005, 06:36 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 3,101
Posted By SomeRandomDude
Re: Update on Lexapro.

Sorry for my rant last night.. too much booze + continued depression= outbursts online. PLEASE disregard it

You guys have all been quite helpful in the past and I feel bad about it.

and yes the...
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