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MelNor 11-06-2003 10:53 PM

1 night stand ??
Is it out of the ordinary for a man to ask the woman he is having sex with to tell him what and how she wants everything done to her the first time you have sex??

german30 11-07-2003 09:08 AM

No question!! Communication is so important for both parties.

Thisby 11-07-2003 10:13 PM

"Is it out of the ordinary"? From my experience, yes.
So if a man does ask, consider yourself lucky. Of course, if he doesn't, and still get's it right, consider yourself EXTREMEly lucky :D

In a perfect world, we'd all instinctively know exactly what we have to do to please our new partners, til then, we'll have to rely on actually asking and telling. I think if a man's willing to ask, he's willing to please, so good for him.

MrNice 11-09-2003 06:48 PM

I dont know if it's unusual but I think a woman would be pleased if her lover was concerned enough about pleasuring her in a way that she really enjoyed regardless of whether it was the first time they were having sex or sometime later in the relationship.

DoveTail 11-10-2003 07:34 AM

You will know inmediately, according to hers reply. so ask kindly and gently and wait for hers reply, then act accordingly

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