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Old 12-24-2000, 10:39 AM   #1
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embarrassing question

I am an 18 year old virgin who has done very little with guys, other than make out. Every time I do that, or a guy touches me in the right way, I start to produce TONS of liquid "down there". I know that that is supposed to happen, but not this much! It is really embarrassing and causes me to not go any farther with guy even when I really want to. Is there anything I can do about this?

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Old 12-24-2000, 05:04 PM   #2
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Re: embarrassing question

Where a tampon

Old 12-24-2000, 05:50 PM   #3
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Re: embarrassing question

no! don't do that! wearing a tampon to control a totally natural body function is stupid and dangerous. You could risk getting Toxic Shock Syndrom (really serious, you could die). And I don't know how far you are going with guys, but if they happen to see or feel the tampon, most likely it will really freak them out (the whole period thing has really thrown them for a loop). So don't worry, all girls have your "problem", and it just lets guys know that we like them

Old 12-25-2000, 10:57 PM   #4
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Re: embarrassing question

please don't wear a tampon! not only is it dangerous, when you aren't flowing, it hurts like hell! there are these great little things carefree makes, though- it's a pantiliner, but all wrapped up like a little tiny pad. they come in scented and unscented, and they are a godsend!!! kotex makes them too, and i buy mine at walmart, so they should be easy to find. one other little help can be some powder (cornstarch or regular talcum is great, and it only takes a little). it feels nice too, because then you stay dry! have fun! (don't do anything i wouldn't! <IMG SRC="">) ryuko

Old 12-26-2000, 08:46 PM   #5
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Re: embarrassing question

I wouldn't really worry about it personally. As a guy I would be flattered by any female who got that wet. It would make me think she was really turned on and liked me.

You have to think like a guy here, and understand what an ego boost it is to us to be able to arouse a woman.

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Old 12-27-2000, 11:02 AM   #6
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The posters are right (other than JDl) Do not ever wear a tampon when you are not on your period it is VERY dangerous. Pantyliners are very thin, comfortable and should do the trick for keeping your pants and panties dry.

Also remember that is what your body is supposed to do, our country was founded by a bunch of puritans- so we are made to feel guilty or embarassed by perfectly natural- normal things.... don't by into it. In my experience the last poster is totally right, men are very aroused and enjoy knowing that they are "on the right track" as it were. it is always gratifying to see that you have as much of an effect on your partner as they are having on you!


Old 12-28-2000, 07:18 PM   #7
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Yes they are right. I am a man and it would be a turn on.

Those are natural juices you be producing there, designed to help lubricate those parts. Too little lubrication causes friction which is not what you want. You have found men who know how to get you going.
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Old 12-30-2000, 07:41 PM   #8
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Re: embarrassing question

That person that said "wear a tampon" is a complete dope! I think that maybe he/she was trying to be funny, but ended up lookig like a moron. I had a night with a girl about 15 years ago...without going into too much detail, she was very, very wet. I have to tell you that from my perspective and it appears from others was a wonderful turn on! Enjoy it, but make sure you practice safe sex. Take care Mark

Old 01-11-2001, 10:09 AM   #9
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Re: embarrassing question

Yes! Do not wear tampons! But I wouldn't be embarrased, that is a turn on for men. It's better than not having lubrication, because that can make sex very painful.

Old 02-11-2001, 05:46 PM   #10
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Re: embarrassing question

Hi Beth,
Let me say if your wet you can be sure the guys even wetter than you. I'm 46 and I get wet at the thought of having sex with my wife, infact I have do have the wet patch afterwards. Your fine but don't forget to keep safe as you don't know how many partners he may have had. You seem a good sensible girl I have a younger daughter who I will explain to her in time. Take care

Old 02-12-2001, 12:41 AM   #11
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Listen to the women who know from experience that all you need are the panty liners. It is only normal for your body to respond in this way. You heard the men, they like it. When you do become sexually active you will be very thankful that you have all this natural wetness!


Old 02-12-2001, 10:25 PM   #12
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Hi Beth...that "tons of liquid" down there is a good thing!!! It just means you're enjoying what is would much rather be that way than dry/not lubricated...Just as the other guys's a turn-on, not a turn-off....I'm sure you're guy loves to see he is having this affect on you....take care!

Old 02-17-2001, 11:03 PM   #13
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All I can say is the first time I ever made out with a guy I was dripping wet too. Now years later....even when I am about to have sex I am still dripping wet. So its normal girl....just hang in there...when u are that is the best.


Old 02-22-2001, 09:02 PM   #14
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Re: embarrassing question

Girl, let the river flow. As a male I could only be happy and proud to know/feel that my girlfriend was aroused

Old 02-22-2001, 09:14 PM   #15
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Re: embarrassing question

Here here for the turn on! Wow!

Don't worry, be happy!

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