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Selfish Male with Erectile Disfunction

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Old 08-17-2012, 08:51 AM   #1
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Unhappy Selfish Male with Erectile Disfunction

i have been dating a guy for 2 years. We both have children from previous relationships. At first when we started dating, we would have (or try to have sex), using a condom. He could never keep it hard and blamed it for the condom. I then proposed i go on birth control. He avoided the subject.. turns out 6 months later he admitted to high blood pressure (42 yrs old) and the medication he takes makes it an issue. I ignored this to not make him feel bad, i always go down on him and "take care of him" even if its a quickie. However, during the quickies, he never reciprocates, one way or another (hand or tongue). When we do have time alone in bed, its rare he ever goes down, and we hardly have sex because of the issue. I try to ignore this since i do love him, but a girl has needs. Our relationship is okay. Hes there for me entirely, however, not a good communicator at all. is it me or a man with issues should over compensate in other ways to satisfy the girl he loves? or is he being just being selfish and maybe he is a selfish man? Should i stay with him - or move on? I know that i can eventually find another guy since i am fit and decent looking. I just dont want to have to start over again...

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Old 08-17-2012, 01:47 PM   #2
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Re: Selfish Male with Erectile Disfunction

Have you spoken to him about your concerns?
Has he seen a Doctor? there is medication to help with issues like this.

Old 08-19-2012, 08:29 PM   #3
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Re: Selfish Male with Erectile Disfunction

You have two choices...Either talk to him point blank about what you want and how you want it done or starve to death.....As for me I love to have a good meal....

Honey, life is too short....Starting over is not a sin....Take care...ILD....

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