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Old 01-14-2013, 09:09 PM   #1
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is this normal?

My fiance and I have been together for four years. Lately our sex life is nonexistent. I keep pushing him for sex, and all he comes back with is "I'm tired, I hurt from work." Okay, I get it, he does do a labor job, but it isn't construction work like one of my exes who never had a problem with sex after work. I've tried to spice things up and he isn't wanting to have sex. My biggest problem is, he will pick a fight with me, and while I go into another room he will get onto the computer, watch porn, masterbate, then go to bed. I am so sexually frustrated but I refuse to go outside of my relationship. I've tried every approach to talk about more sex and every time he shuts me down or just says like I said before he is tired or sore from work. I have said if you are that sore from work you need to see a doctor. I don't know what else to do or say. Should I just walk away while I can? I just don't know if lack of sex is a big enough reason alone. We average about once every 3 months. I'm 32 and he is 34. I have needs! lol

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Old 01-16-2013, 10:10 PM   #2
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Re: is this normal?

IMO, what you see is what you will get....Marriage will not make the frequency improve, only he can do this..You are battling another woman...That being Porn and his making love to himself...Until he gets away from this hold that she (computer) has on him, you will be second in line...

Think it over well...Statistically speaking, as he ages his libido will age with it...However, we women seem to find this time in our life to really grow into the uninhibited part that many of us have hidden....

Good luck...Take care...ILD.....

Old 01-17-2013, 03:50 AM   #3
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Re: is this normal?

you have a serious problem at your hand their might be another woman involve?

Old 01-18-2013, 06:31 AM   #4
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Re: is this normal?

That is what I originally thought too.

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