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AnonUser86 02-16-2013 09:15 AM

The denial of Fetish
I am interested in fetishes, however, my wife only wants normal, vanilla sex. What should I do?

lenvegas 02-17-2013 08:12 AM

Re: The denial of Fetish
Don't say anything, vanilla people do not understand unconventional sexuality. If you tell her it could be a major source of contention between you and your wife.

AnonUser86 02-17-2013 08:25 AM

Re: The denial of Fetish
How am I to deal with my desire for fetishes?

lenvegas 02-17-2013 09:49 AM

Re: The denial of Fetish
I would really like to give you the proper answer. If you told me what the fetish is it would certainly help. Thanks

AnonUser86 02-17-2013 01:55 PM

Re: The denial of Fetish
I have been married heterosexually for almost 5 years. Through this time I have found some social anxieties and fears that I have been over coming little by little. Now I am finding that I could possibly be classified as Bi-curious. I do enjoy anal/prostate stimulation but am very nervous and afraid of my wife's reaction to this. I have talked to her about it. She says she finds it weird and seems to be uncomfortable with the idea.

I'm just really afraid of her reaction if I try to get her to try anything out.

Brook88 02-17-2013 06:29 PM

Re: The denial of Fetish
start out with other things first.;)

redfive 02-26-2013 12:23 AM

Re: The denial of Fetish
You're on the right course with communication with your wife. As she tries to understand your point of view, try to understand hers. Love conquers a lot.

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