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Old 10-06-2013, 01:02 AM   #1
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I recently hooked up with a friend from high school but he obviously is hiding me from everyone. We've just been texting but today we went to the country and I gave him incredible oral sex but got nothing in return. My quedtion Is should I be hapoy with just at least doing something sexual or am I being used?

 
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Old 10-06-2013, 08:32 AM   #2
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Re: Does it count?

Hi,

Are you actually dating this guy or was it just a one of sexual encounter.
When you say you got nothing in return what exactly were you hoping for. Has he arranged to see you again or not.
If it is just for sex then yes he could be using you.
I'm not sure what you mean when you say "He is hiding me", does he not want you to see anyone else apart from him.
Can you enlighten us a little more, like "How long have you known him since knowing him at school and how did you meet up again",

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Old 10-06-2013, 10:06 AM   #3
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Re: Does it count?

What you're talking about is called settling. When you start a relationship based on settling for less than what you want, it sets a bad precedent going forward which allows the other person to take advantage of you on an ongoing basis. Why settle for someone who is ashamed of being seen with you and giving him everything and getting nothing in return? Boys will take from you without caring about your feelings. I don't think you should ever let any boy just use you as his sex toy especially when he is keeping you a secret from everyone. Why won't he tell his friends? What is he afraid of?

 
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