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Old 08-07-2014, 08:21 PM   #1
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Gay guy having trouble getting horny

Hi, everyone. I am brand new here and I joined because I have been suffering for the last year or so. I am probably going to be a bit graphic and may include some stuff that should be classified as TMI, but I am really looking for some guidance.

I came out as gay when I was 18. I am currently 21. I have never had sex and I have only kissed a handful of guys (I am definitely above average looking and try to keep in shape.)

I have been very nervous about the idea of sex. I masturbate often--about once a day or once every two days. For many years, I almost exclusively watch only a certain type of gay porn that includes light bdsm and some form of humiliation. I never really like watching "normal" gay porn.

I also engage in cyber sex often. It turns me on to show myself on cam to another guy.

Well, about 5 months ago, I had met up with a boy at my university. This was the first time I had ever been naked in front of someone. He was very drunk and I was a bit tipsy. I never really got an erection throughout the entire night. We met up 5 days later. I still did not get an erection. I should clarify that I was not very attracted to his body at all.

But, now I have been panicking because I am scared that I couldn't get an erection. What if this happens again?

Has anyone heard of a problem like this before? Am I addicted to porn possibly? (But I do get an erection quickly when I am engaging in cybersex.)

 
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