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Old 11-18-2004, 02:50 PM   #1
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need man's opinion

I have been married for just over 2 years now and it seems my husband's sex drive is dwindling to non-existant or when we do try it takes so much work on my part to help him get fully arosed (or sometimes nothing helps) that I am no longer excited. Giving him a BJ is part of the routine and he has no interest in doing the same for me. I get absolutely no foreplay, he may touch me for a few minutes and then all of the energy has be to directed to him. And once is is done we are done for the day - sometimes 2 days.
Is this normal?? Should we consult a Dr.?

Any advise would be very helpful... I am a very sexual person and I can't imagine what our sex life is going to be like in a few years....

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Old 11-18-2004, 04:25 PM   #2
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Re: need man's opinion

Have his Urologist do a hormone panel on him and check his testosterone levels (300-1,000 is normal range). Try Viagra or Cialis if his testosterone is fine and ask the uro for testosterone patches if it is not. It may just be psychological...has he been depressed, anxious or under a great deal of stress lately?.

God luck

Old 11-18-2004, 05:48 PM   #3
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Re: need man's opinion

Originally Posted by Cowguy22
Little advice viagra it works slip one or 2 too him before he gets in bed. He'll want to do more then just foreplay he'll wanna rock the bed for hours.
I'm not entirely sure what is meant here, but NEVER give anyone drugs without their awareness and permission. Viagra isn't like Flintstones vitamins, it is a powerful drug, and abusing it can be dangerous. Furthermore, it does nothing to help with mental arousal, nor anything to help the true cause of the problem.

Wish you and your mate the best.

Last edited by Darkfur; 11-18-2004 at 05:54 PM.

Old 11-19-2004, 07:13 AM   #4
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Re: need man's opinion

GreyGoose, thanks for the advice. There really have not been any outside issues that are contributing to this problem. It has been an off and on issue since we met. I have to admit although I know its not me, sometimes I can't help but think I am doing something wrong.

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