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Old 12-28-2005, 01:32 AM   #1
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a question for the guys...

is it normal for a guy to lose an erection when performing oral or manual sex on a girl? you would think it would be a turn on and excite the guy, or at least keep him excited if he already was, but it seems like the opposite with my SO. it's kind of insulting.

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Old 12-28-2005, 03:36 AM   #2
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Re: a question for the guys...

No I do not think that it is by any means insulting, it means he is concentrating on you!

Some men need to be manually stimulated to retain an erection, and if this stops or is not there the erection will go. Perhaps you could help him while he does you?

As long as it comes back when you do things to him, and for intercourse what is the problem?

Old 12-28-2005, 04:01 AM   #3
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Re: a question for the guys...

Happened to me too, it's because he's concentrating on you instead of himself. Some guys just lose their erections more easily.

Old 12-28-2005, 08:08 AM   #4
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Re: a question for the guys...

It happens to me as well. it didn't when I was younger, but it does now.
This is not a personal insult, it's just that the penis knows that entry is not imminent.

Old 12-28-2005, 09:17 AM   #5
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There are some positions that would allow both of you to perform stimulation to each other---again communication can be so important.

Old 12-28-2005, 11:18 AM   #6
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My husband looses his erection as well. A penis has a mind of its own.
Think how you used to blush when you were younger. It is similar with the penis with the rush of blood.

Old 12-28-2005, 12:44 PM   #7
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Re: a question for the guys...

thanks guys, i had a feeling it could be just because he was focused more on something else

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