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Old 01-29-2006, 04:43 AM   #1
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Question What can I do to last longer in bed?

Does running or everyday exercise such as weightlifting help as much with lasting longer before I ejaculate? I have read some posts and one stated that essential oils or reading cognitive thinking books would help. I just dont want to try any pills. Im already taking meds for bipolar disorder. I want to have sex at least 3 to 4 times a day. What about masturbation? I admit I get aroused easy, especially through looking at porn online. I heard that masturbating after sex can help for the next time that you have sex. It should lengthen the time before you ***. I dont know, Im just somewhat skeptical about it. By the way Im Damon, 31, no kids, and currently in a relationship.

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Old 01-30-2006, 12:08 AM   #2
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Re: What can I do to last longer in bed?

Wow, sex 3-4 times a day. I wouldnt worry about how long you last if your getting it several times a day. Most will never have that privilege.

Old 01-31-2006, 10:36 PM   #3
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Re: What can I do to last longer in bed?


my two bits

a) some say masterbating before sex, makes you last longer when you have sex, the only problem is, you lose some of the desire to actually have it, and some guys get really tired after ejaculating, so that can cause problems. Depends on the person. I myself have not heard of the masterbating AFTER sex to lengthen the next time...

b) there is a technique of certain sexual arts.. of being able to control the muscle that will allow your ejaculate to come out... its the same muscle that you use when you stop the flow of urine coming out, while urinating-- like stopping it half way. It says if you practice using this muscle, (there are several exercises you can do to strengthen it, look it up online), that you can, when you are about to ejaculate, that you use the same muscle you use to stop the flow of urine, so that you have the pleasure of an orgasm, without actually, ejaculating. Which in turn keeps you erect, and allows you to continue having sex and theoretically having an orgasm more than once in one 'go'.

Now to be honest, I have no clue if this technique actually works. I have a friend who swears by it, But its worth a shot if you are really interested? I believe you can find the technique online, if not its also a tantra used technique I believe.

Also lasting longer is not always a sure fire way to be a better lover.

Try reading up on kama sutra, or the tantric arts. They give alot of, how to be a better lover stuff emotionaly and physically.

Also.. there is a technique my brother taught me.. its a little strange...
basically when you feel yourself leading up to that point of no return, you simply start thinking of... baseball statistics... or whatever sport you want. Seriously I know this sounds messed up, but I tried it, and by doing math and working out batting averages, etc-- and then focusing on sex, then baseball, then sex, you can stay hard and not ejaculate for longer than your normally would... try it with yourself masterbating and see if it works for you. Its not the nicest of ones... but if you're looking to impress, it might work?

and another one--is using certain types of condoms... made for.. a.. 'sensitive' guy. IE someone who ejaculates faster than they'd like, of course you get reduced sensation as the trade off.

good luck to you.

edit-->P.S. the Sport one might not work for you if you are somehow aroused by the sport or by doing math

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Old 02-06-2006, 07:43 PM   #4
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Re: What can I do to last longer in bed?

Out of my experince only these two things work:

1) Go on the bottom, I can last forever (i dont think iv ever finsished on the bottom) I can barly last 5 mins on top thru.

2) Do it twice, Once you Ejac, Wait till you get it up again and you can last much longer.

Old 02-06-2006, 08:20 PM   #5
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Re: What can I do to last longer in bed?

how about buyn climax control condoms..i mean yea they make you last alot longer(in my case i was going strong and no where close to stoppen after 45 min) those can help but the feel is just not the same as no condom

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