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Old 08-07-2006, 08:55 AM   #1
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erections in my 30s

I got this sort of a 'stage fright' situation w/ my girlfriend recently: I was aroused when we were making out and taking 1 another's clothes off. But when it was time to have sex and she wanted me inside her, I just couldn't get hard. After about 1/2 hr.(and being upset w/ myself), I finally got partly erect, and went into her. I was able to keep it for a while and it did get somewhat more erect; but even during the time, I felt it going soft while in there. She seemed to like how long it took for me to finally finish, but it was a lot of 'work' to stay erect and eventually have an orgasm; when I did have an orgasm, about 1/2-hr. had gone by.

The night before, she gave me really good oral. And I'm wondering if, in my early 30s, I possibly can't get or keep a solid erection the following night. (The times were 7 p.m. on 1st night, 11 p.m. on 2nd night.) Is it common to not be able to perform if I had an orgasm the night before?
I'm now sort of worried about the next time we do it.

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Old 08-07-2006, 10:11 AM   #2
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Re: erections in my 30s

How is your libido and do you have erections at night time or when you wake up that are firm? If not you may have hormonal issues. Otherwise this may be temporary and dont focus on it so it doesnt become self-fulfilling.

Old 08-07-2006, 11:44 AM   #3
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Re: erections in my 30s

My erections, in general, are firm though I'm not necessarily always aroused at night or when I wake up. I guess they're firmest after I haven't had an orgasm or fooled around w/ her for a few days. I'm hoping the right answer is the 2nd part of your response. It's probably just temporary, and isn't a problem for me or the girlfriend at this point.
My libido seems to be normal lately (though sometimes I feel tense about work), and I'm definitely turned on by her.

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