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Old 02-11-2007, 07:52 PM   #1
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Help me Help him

I am new at this and have to say I am glad I found this board.

Ok here is our situation. We have had Amazing sex many times and all the sudden a few weeks prior i have noticed he didn't seem to want to have sex with me and it bothered me for a few weeks and I finally had to ask him if he was getting it elsewhere. Believe me I hated asking him that because I finally found the man who I truly love to death and feared losing him.well he told me (he) hasn't been working for awhile and he was worried also so we talked about this and I am going to do everything I can to help him. He really doesn't deserve this to happen to him. I guess porn doesn't help him get an erection either. what i did was read some of the post to him to let him know he is not the only one going thru this. I know he is feeling really bad and I don't want him to feel bad for not being able to please me I am ok with this now knowing what is going on with him I just miss being skin to skin with him but I don't want to add pressure on him by asking him if we could just lay together naked holding eachother in eachothers arms.

Is there any advise in what can I really do to help him with out feeling like I am pressureing him?????

What can he do to get an erection?????????

Please help me help him. Thanks in advance for your help.

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Old 02-14-2007, 12:58 PM   #2
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Lightbulb Re: Help me Help him

You ask him.....and he gave you an answer.

Why not, ask him again?except this time you want to sleep naked together and just hold hands?? I mean.....You ask him before....I sure he will give you a response if you will just ask!

How is oral sex working for you and Him?? Was his penis hard during oral?

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Old 02-17-2007, 05:55 AM   #3
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Re: Help me Help him

I have givin him many oral sex and he loved it. but since this all has arised I really don't know what to do cause I don't want him to feel bad when I go down on him and he can't get a full erection. He wants to get him working again.

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