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Old 02-20-2007, 01:55 PM   #1
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Wow, what the heck have I done?

On saturday I decided to take my girlfriend out to a nice romantic dinner and hopefully bring her back to my apartment afterwards for some "fun". I decided to shave all of my pubic area as a "surprise" to see how she liked it. Once I was done shaving, everything was going according to plan. I brought her home and one thing led to another and we were ready for intercourse.....atleast I thought I was! My erection died in about 30 seconds for no apparent reason......I have no idea what caused that, we had been intimate with no problems two days before. That night I was able to eventually obtain a very weak erection and still complete the deed, she seemed to enjoy the "new look" and even commented positively about it. Ever since then I have had a chance with her on three separate occasions and the same exact thing is happening to me. I get sexually aroused but after a very short period of time my erection just does not maintain! Does anyone have an idea what may be causing this? I am a healthy 21 year old male, could this just be a temporary "slump"? Any information would be appreciated.

PS I had shaved in the past with no problems. I'm not on any medications etc.

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Old 02-20-2007, 04:39 PM   #2
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Re: Wow, what the heck have I done?

Every man who has any appreciable sexual experience will sometimes have a droopy penis. It just goes with the game. Mostly, we don't figure out why. Some of us older guys become pretty adept at doing it with a "softie".

Sometimes it's tiredness, sometimes stress, etc. I wouldn't worry a bit, you certainly have not caused this by shaving your groin. My guess is that you won't have this in any kind of permanent sense at all.

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Old 02-22-2007, 08:41 AM   #3
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Re: Wow, what the heck have I done?

Maybe subconsciously you were feeling nervous about exposing your new look. Seems for men (and women too believe it or not....we can work ourselves up to nothing as well) once there's a function failure, it immediately goes to our heads. Then we worry about it happening the next time. Then of course it does, because we're worried. It becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Try to relax and remember that our bodies aren't robots, they all have off days.

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