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Old 04-18-2007, 08:00 AM   #1
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I neen a guys perspective

My boyfriend was acting so strange last night, he came over my apartment to watch the Redsox game and was trying to get frisky the whole pregame show, then the sox lost and he was all grumpy about it and didn't want to have sex cuz he is "not in the mood" Can that really be why he didn't want to have sex?? We used to have sex like everyday and lately it's been more like twice a week because we are both in college and work full time, so I was kinda upset because I know I won't see him for a few days and I really wanted to. Is there something going on or was it really just because of the game?

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Old 04-18-2007, 08:18 AM   #2
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Re: I neen a guys perspective

You really have to talk to him about this; each of us could give you a different answer or idea.

Old 04-18-2007, 10:23 AM   #3
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Re: I neen a guys perspective

From a male perspective, heck yea that could kill his mood! When the Redskins loose a game they should have owned, I get so mad, but I'll also admit all it takes is for my SO to do oral on me and I'm in a much better mood. But I wouldn't make anything out of this unless it becomes a habit.

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Old 04-18-2007, 11:23 AM   #4
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Elle I think it's the same principal as, say for example, you're having sex and somebody begins urgently knocking at your door. Out of alarm you stop having sex, get up, answer the door, deal with whomever for say 10-15 minutes, then try going back and resuming sex. A lot of the time you can't go back and just restart because the mood has been killed, at least temporarily. Anything that truly upset him can kill the mood. I think it's normal for most.

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Old 05-06-2007, 10:15 PM   #5
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I personally think he may be getting bored of it because you two use to do it all the long have you been dating for? Answer me that question and I'll respond.

Old 05-07-2007, 09:24 PM   #6
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Re: I neen a guys perspective

haha I was surprised to see this post again, I posted this a while ago. We've been going out a year, but it must have just been the game cuz he has been frisky lately. Thanks for the responses guys

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