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Old 12-06-2007, 01:59 PM   #1
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lack of sexual pleasure

i am going through an issue which is causing me a lot of stress. I am not enjoying my sexual life. it had started around 3-4 years before. initially it was adventure, so it continued, as i thought they by the time, i will enjoy it. but still it is just an excercise for me to please my wife. even i am happy to please her but why i am not enjoying? i do have hard on, have sex properly, sometime experience Premature ejaculation also, but still i should enjoy. i do enjoy porm movies, porn reading material, but what about act of sex?
can anyone help

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Old 12-06-2007, 09:30 PM   #2
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Re: lack of sexual pleasure

You don't really provide a lot of information to go on, but I'll have to say I'm stumped on how to answer you..

You're getting aroused and erect, penetrating your wife's vagina, so the sexual act is obviously feeling good, stimulating your penis and making you climax. You also say you don't mind pleasing your wife. There is bound to be something you're not enjoying, rather not getting. Do you ejaculate prematurely often? If so that could be the problem, because when a man can't enjoy the sex act for no more that a few minutes, that can create a great lack of fulfillment. Is there something else subconsciously that you want sexually that isn't being fulfilled? Is there perhaps a type of sexual act or anythig else that you want from your wife that she's not providing? Has sex grown routine and dull to you?

I wish I could help you pinpoint your problem more. Just ask yourself honestly what it would take sexually to make you really aroused and make things the way they used to be. Any hidden desires? Anything at all..

Wish I could help more. Keep in touch and I hope things get better for you.


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