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Old 12-10-2007, 01:35 PM   #1
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erection & then EEEEEEEEEEEeeeeeee......._______

I an very happily in love w/ my partner(Female)
When She or I want to "get it on", I'm hard for 1/2 the time, then I fade.
Anyone else has this problem?

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Old 12-10-2007, 03:15 PM   #2
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Re: erection & then EEEEEEEEEEEeeeeeee......._______

You might want to try having your testosterone checked to see if it is low.

That is one of the early symptoms or at least one of the least avoidable.


Old 12-13-2007, 08:52 PM   #3
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Re: erection & then EEEEEEEEEEEeeeeeee......._______

Yeah, I had this same problem, frustrating. I start off hard, then go limp to the point I can't even penetrate her anymore. At that point it won't even stay hard, unless she does oral, then as soon as she stops, it's gone.

It's most likely inexperience, and anxiety - whether you're consciously aware of it, or not. The only way to deal with this is to keep trying until you get comfortable enough, or go see a doctor and talk to him about it; he might prescribe you Viagra so that you stay hard long enough to finish off, and from there you can get used to the feeling of proper sex and slowly dissipate your anxiety, so that you won't need the drug anymore. An alternative to that, and in regards to the first technique I described, your doctor might also recommend some kind of sex therapy class where you and your gf learn, and are told to go and have sex without penetration, stuff like that, to slowly get comfortable with each other and slowly you'll be able to have a proper erection. I didn't do the therapy thing because I was seeing many girls, not a steady gf.

It's almost 100% psychological, especially if you're young, because of the fact you can start with a proper erection means nothing should be mechanically wrong. You can also try drinking more before sex, it sounds counter-intuitive but for some (including myself) it actually works because it reduces the stress and anxiety, allowing for better performance

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