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Old 01-22-2008, 11:46 AM   #1
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Hi everyone, its my first post here, and I really need some help! I'm 36 yrs old, just about 9 months seperated out of a 6 year relationship with 2 beatiful healthy boys to show for it. Before i met my last ex-wife, however, I went through a period of 5 or so years (from age 27-31) where i was typically single, had no serious relationships for more than a few months at a time, and was extremely actie sexually. Not so much one nighters, but regular partners with whom I was not seriously involved in other ways (friends with benefits). These ladies came to me because i was "THE Tiger" (haha, nickname is Tony), and it was not unusual for me to be able to perform as many as 5-6 times in a 6-8hr session! And that was without long breaks, maybe have a smoke (was into weed at the time too) and then back at it.

The problem is, when i met my estranged wife, all began to change. Sex with her was not particularly enjoyable most of the time, and over the 6 yrs we were together, my drive plummeted. Mind you, I still wanted to have sex, just wouldrather masturbate to porn than be with her as it was much more satisfying.

I now have a young girlfriend, and she is amazing in bed! However, even with her, I find myself often unable to maitain an erection once we begin actual intercourse. I have no problems getting an erection, and ussually maintaining it throughout foreplay, which can sometimes be 1-2 hrs, but once intercourse begins, I'm down in 5-6 min without even ejaculating!

Is this just psychological, or should i try Natural Ehancement supplements, or what? I ama going through other difficulties, and have no insurance to see a doctor about it at the moment.

Sorry for the long ramble, but necessary to see the whole picture.

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Old 01-22-2008, 01:26 PM   #2
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Re: Where did the tiger go?

sounds like you have trained yourself not to like sex with a female. Your hand is much tigher then any female. its a hard thing to over come. i've been there and still am to some extent. my advice, abstain from all sex and selfpleasure for a good week or more. Get really really horny. then have sex with your girl. adn if it doesn't work then wait even longer. Eventually your horiness will over come your training.

Old 01-24-2008, 12:46 PM   #3
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Re: Where did the tiger go?

The strange thing is, this is not an always thing... the last two nights, everything worked perfectly! Even better than perfectly! So, I am really at a loss as to why sometimes its just out-of-service.

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