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Old 05-24-2008, 01:34 PM   #1
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Question Weak Orgasms

I am hoping some of you can give me some good advice here. Sex has not been as enjoyable for me for a few years now. The main thing is that when I orgasm, not much happens anymore. There's not much more than a mild sensation--definitely nothing explosive/mindblowing. Orgasm feels more like a mild relief than it does orgasmic. Sex itself feels good, but the orgasms just aren't there anymore. I also do not have a very forceful ejaculation either, and not a lot comes out. No throbbing sensation that used to be there.

Please don't give me some "all in your head" or "could be stress" answers. Those are not the issue. I want some medical possibilities of what might be wrong. What are some SPECIFIC tests I might want to ask a doctor to run? In the past, I have been to two doctors and neither of them showed any interest in helping me diagnose this. One just handed me some Viagra samples, at which point I refused to pay for my visit. I'm frustrated because if you look young and healthy (I'm in my early 30s and athletic) they don't seem to take you seriously and chalk it up to stress or nerves or something lame. I do have an appointment with a urologist who specializes in sexual dysfunctions in a few weeks, but I want to go there with some info in hand of what might need to be discussed/explored.

Has anyone else experienced this? thanks.

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Old 05-24-2008, 02:22 PM   #2
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Re: Weak Orgasms

Weak orgasms, lack of that throbbing or pumping sensation prior to ejaculation and a less forceful ejaculation and less semen are typically associated with advancing age but you are way too young to be experiencing orgasm sensation loss!

I recommend your urologist order a total Testosterone blood workup. Total T, Free T, SHBG, LH, DHT, Prolactin, DHEA, TSH (High Sensitive) and, Estradiol. Estradiol is a predominant female hormone that if men do not have enough, or have to much, of will negatively affect their libido.

Problem is, your typical everyday doctor, even urologist, will not recognize subtleties among these tests. You would need to seek the help of a doctor specilizing in male hormones. Anti-aging doctors do this as do some better known like Dr. Shippen who is mentioned frequently in the Men's Health section here.

If you can't get access to a hormone specialist but can afford it (or have a FLEX account) you can order tests online, go to a local lab, and the results are emailed to you.

One thing you *can* do for yourself for free is to start, if you have not already done so, PC muscle exercises. It takes a lot of time to see any results and they must be continued frequently but your PC muscles are directly related to that pumping sensation, the male orgasm, just prior to your ejaculation. It is against board rules here to give step-by-step instruction but you should not have much trouble finding it.

Old 05-24-2008, 07:23 PM   #3
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Re: Weak Orgasms

Thanks a lot, AZ. I apprecate the time you took to give such a good response.

The doctor I am going to is in a different city and specializes in the male sexuality side of urology, so I hope he is the right person to go see. The two local urologist I went to deal mostly with elderly patients from the look of their waiting rooms. I did request a blood test about three years ago, and the doc who did it said I had plenty of testosterone, but he never mentioned any other hormones that could affect me negatively.

I'll tell you what the doc finds next month.

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